Feeling Pretty Down... *Updated 4 months later pg2 pls read*

[happy-chick]

Hi Guys,

 

[Melly+2]

Hunny just wanted to give you loads of these, thing will get better, im always here if you need to talk, i might nit be able to help but im an ear to lend

 

[happy-chick]

Thank you so much, I really really appreciate you being there for me. You've been a fantastic friend to me recently.

 

[SarahB]

Honey, I really hope things get better for you. You have been such an inspiration to so many people on here, and you truly deserve to be happy. If you need to talk I will be here for you, just drop me a PM. Also wanted to send you some of these:

 

[lou79]

aww sorry your feeling down hun, all i can say is try and stay strong and i'm sure it won't be too much longer until you start to feel a bit better.

Have you thought about going to the doctors or seeing a counciler(sp) if your not already?

Stay strong!!!!!

 

[happy-chick]

Thanks SarahB, Have I really been an inspiration? Wow thats such a nice things to say im flattered!
Would love to chat sometime xxx

Lou79 im already under the doctor, I think to be honest I just need to get through it myself. I am improving but the bad days are still so hard and painful. Thanks so much or your support hun xxx

 

[Melly+2]

Its been my pleasure hun, thats what friends are for

 

[fothers]

Sorry you are feeling rotten at the moment Jo- it will eventually get better although I know you can't see that just now.

How about booking yourself a massage or something at the weekend and getting pampered to help you feel a bit better or you and OH going to a hotel for a couple of days and having a minibreak?

I think when your df's cousin has the baby it probably won't be as bad as you think. A friend of ours had a baby in Decmber just after I had went through my 2nd d\c and I was feeling really down but when we went to visit them it was more inspiring than anything.

PM me if you need to chat or rant or anything

Thinking of you

 

[Baileysmummy]

so sorry your feeling like this happy_chick

Can i give you a huge as im not feeling great either, [/quote]

 

[Flossy82]

Hey there jo im sorry to hear your feeling like this sweety but im also here if you need me as id like to return the favour of you listening to me waffle on when i have done it always means alot to me -xxx-

 

[jenna]

 

[happy-chick]

Thanks everyone your such a great group of people! Thanks for your replies, I appreciate ur kind words and support.

for u all! xxx

 

[MissGobby]

Hun just read this, im soo sorry your feeling down

It makes me so upset you going through all this pain darlin and im not able to do anything to take the pain away !

i just dont know what to say or do, but just wanted to tell you that you know where i am for whatever reason darlin

take care lots of love and hugs for you babes

 

[Alfiesmummy]

Jo babe got a lump in my throat reading this. PLease do not think as yourself as a failure it is not your fault what happened it was god way of saying that your beautifull baby was too prescious for the world in which we live. I agree with sarahB you have been and are an inspiration and you put everyone before yourself always there to listen to others. start looking after you, and making people take care of you. Sweetheart you are strong and although you will never forget i promise it will get easier. do not ever hesitate to tell me when u need some friend tlc.

 

[happy-chick]

Thanks so much Steph, ur a good friend! You've supported me loads and i'll always be grateful for that! x

Sunshinestars Thanks so much! Same to jenna and Flossy xxxx

MissGobby thanks for listening to me moan on! xxx

 

[MissGobby]

 

[happy-chick]

 

[nicki]

 

[Happybunny]

Awww babe. I am sooo sorry you are feeling so sad. You have always been a massive support to me!
Recovery after a m/c is such a roller coaster. There are bad days and good day, bad weeks and good weeks. It sounds as though the last few weeks have been very hard for you . You are not a failure!! You give so much to so many people on this forum, we all love you so much
I don't what I can say to make you realise how wonderful you are, but you are, trust me!
Things may be getting you down at the minute, my advice is to ride things out, talk to us, your OH, your good friend. We can't make things easier, but we can be a sympathetic ear and a reassurance that things will get better. Don't stress about anything at the moment, get through the next few days and weeks and then have a really really good time on your hols....a chance to escape from all the pressures.
I am going to email you now, but please please please know that you are wonderful and life will get better for you, I promise.
Sending so many hugs
Michelle
xxxxxxx

 

[Happybunny]

sorry babe, had to pm you instead as still having issues with email.