feeling distant

[kellylou]

Since becoming pregnant ive fet distant from my hubby, i think this is becos i wanted a baby more but we waited until we were both ready before ttc and even when i got my bfp he didnt seem that excited maybe its he worry of the unknown dont know but even now i feel so alone going thro everything he doesnt get excited anout shopping for things togethervand pulls a face when i talk about the birth as he has a phobia of needles nd blood i am so scared he will pass out whilst i give birth and aso anxiius about how he will be when he comes. There is no passion between us anymore and i dobt feel desired by him in any way i just dont know what to do ive tried talking to him but he just says hes stressed with work

 

[cherelle]

aww hun, i totally know how you feel on the not feeling desired front. Maybe your OH will suprise you and really step up to the mark when you go into labour... hes proably just scared at not being as good as you need him to be at the birth x