Hey girls,
i hope you are all not feeling like me at the moment and i am so sorry if this brings anyone else down but i feel like i cant talk to anyone!
i just dont know where to start.. the last couple of weeks have been really emotional for me. i have gone from people saying your not showing to OMG your huge, you sure its not twins?
yes i am sure its not twins i have a beautiful bouncy baby boy inside.
i know i am so blessed to be carrying a healthy baby but sometimes i just feel so fat and useless. i am finding it really hard to accept that i cant go on the really long walks i used to or wear my size 10 jeans anymore. its selfish isnt it?
i went t a wedding on saturday night and i had loads of drunken strangers grabbing my belly saying wow your big or oh my god look at the size of you now!
its something that should be celebrated but i cant help but feel unattractive. on the other hand i have had plenty of people say your looking so well and your glowing but my brain seems to want to forget the nice things and i sit there dwelling on the horrible comments.
i know i have gained weight (a bloody stone already), i know it is normal but i just wish sometimes i could be less paranoid and not care what people say. i try to talk to my boyfriend who is fabulous and in my eyes my hero aswell as my lover but he laughs it off saying stop it your gorgeous and i love that your bump is out becuase it makes him proud. why wont this sink in!!! i also have a feeling that when he is at work (builder) he is loking at all the pretty little skinny girls walking passed thinking a wish Becks was that size again. Doc signed me off for 2 weeks to relax and de-stress yesterday so i am going to use my time to start to chill out a bit and think .
im just a bit all over the place
sorry for the long message, even if i dont get any replies, thanks for reading it. i do actually feel a little better now
Becky
xxxxx
i hope you are all not feeling like me at the moment and i am so sorry if this brings anyone else down but i feel like i cant talk to anyone!
i just dont know where to start.. the last couple of weeks have been really emotional for me. i have gone from people saying your not showing to OMG your huge, you sure its not twins?
yes i am sure its not twins i have a beautiful bouncy baby boy inside.
i know i am so blessed to be carrying a healthy baby but sometimes i just feel so fat and useless. i am finding it really hard to accept that i cant go on the really long walks i used to or wear my size 10 jeans anymore. its selfish isnt it?
i went t a wedding on saturday night and i had loads of drunken strangers grabbing my belly saying wow your big or oh my god look at the size of you now!
its something that should be celebrated but i cant help but feel unattractive. on the other hand i have had plenty of people say your looking so well and your glowing but my brain seems to want to forget the nice things and i sit there dwelling on the horrible comments.
i know i have gained weight (a bloody stone already), i know it is normal but i just wish sometimes i could be less paranoid and not care what people say. i try to talk to my boyfriend who is fabulous and in my eyes my hero aswell as my lover but he laughs it off saying stop it your gorgeous and i love that your bump is out becuase it makes him proud. why wont this sink in!!! i also have a feeling that when he is at work (builder) he is loking at all the pretty little skinny girls walking passed thinking a wish Becks was that size again. Doc signed me off for 2 weeks to relax and de-stress yesterday so i am going to use my time to start to chill out a bit and think .
im just a bit all over the place
sorry for the long message, even if i dont get any replies, thanks for reading it. i do actually feel a little better now
Becky
xxxxx