Fed up!

[Pearl999]

So after 14 months since my misscarriage I have made a doctors appointment to see if they will refer us. Just feel like it wil never happen I have really tried to stay positive and 'not worry/ not think about things too much' but it is impossiable.

I have had bloods done-all normal
Scans are normal
Had a lap and dye in November which showed a bit of endometriosis which was cut out, this wasn't on my ovaries, uterus or tubes and the dye test was normal.

Reason for the laparoscopy was pain in right side since PUL.

So at the moment I have reflexology twice a month, I take a fertility vitamin, b complex vitamins and omega 3,6,9.

I chart using fertility friend and seem to ovualte every month, luteal phase can be different every month and I do get spotting before AF is due.

I keep fit and do yoga

My diet is ok

I don't smoke or really drink

So why is it not happening when we caught 3rd cycle first time (misscarriage).

Anyway just want a moan and if anybody has any advice on what I can do or how to proceed next I would be grateful.

Thanks x

 

[Loubalouba]

It's mental isn't it!! Does my head in!!! We have been trying for 21 months with one miscarriage 8 months ago, I also have reflexology, hubby hardly drinks, I drink a bit but only a few glasses on a weekend, I run and exercise, my diet is not bad apart from chocolate! ( I blame the stress of TTC!) our bloods etc is all fine, I am now however on clomid as stopped ov after mc, but we do everything we can every month and nothing! Even on my 1st does of clomid when I had 2 follicles on my l ovary, progesterone was 80 and we dtd every day over the fertile period and no bfp!! Yet my 3 friends get pg after 1 or 2 months of trying!!! Makes no sense and I think for people struggling to conceive every month is just torque when u get the bfn or the bloody af!

So I hear your pain and feel exactly the same!

All I can say is that when it does finally happen we will love. Cherish and appreciate the little bean soooooo much!

Lou xx

 

[Pearl999]

Thanks Lou

It's mad isn't it I've given up thinking it can happen now, this months just been random I've been spotting for 4 days and ovulated 5 days earlier than normal I've given up thinking I know what my body is up to!

I've also had a run of friends who accidentally sneeze an get pregnant obviously happy for them but is does feel so unfair!.

I've added something new in every month to try, this month I'm tempted by progesterone cream as I'm convinced I have a luteal phase defect only 9-10 days long with spotting. But I may wait to see my doctor and see what they advice!

Good luck with it will keep my fingers crossed for you xx

 

[MelC2011]

I'm the same. Been trying 2 years 3 months. Had a miscarriage on cycle 17 so 10 months ago.
Bloods tests are all fine, had scan and lap & dye - all fine and hubby's sa fab.
So why can't we get pregnant.
Hoping to be referred but our guidelines are shite - sorry excuse the language but it really irritates me.

Keep thinking positive honey ... it will happen (that's what I keep telling myself)
xx