HeppiBean
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Ok, so as you know Cescas' Daddy and I separated when she was 2 weeks old (now 16 months). I'm happy with my current partner and so looking forward to our little one arriving. Cesca lives with us and visits her Dad every Sunday.
We've got it all sussed!!
So, the problem! Cesca insists on calling OH Daddy :/ She still calls her Daddy Daddy but calls Nathan it as well. If we say "look, it's Nathan" or "go to Nathan" or anything like that she pulls her grumpy face and says "No Mummy. Daddy!" And runs at him :/.
I'm glad she's taken to him so well bvut don't know what to do here... Nathan's happy to be called Daddy if that's what she wants, and I think it might be the better option anyway with No. 2 so close to arriving and her being so young. I mean, Ben will be calling Nathan Daddy, so she's going to pick it up anyway... Just don't know if it's the right thing to do...
My main concern is if she turns round and calls Nathan Daddy in front of her father as I know he would lose it... Do you think maybe we should talk to FOB about it, or what?!
Bearing in mind FOB is abusive, has a criminal record for assault and battery, ABH and criminal damage... And the ABH was against me... :/ Eurgh! So awkward! HELP?!
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We've got it all sussed!!
So, the problem! Cesca insists on calling OH Daddy :/ She still calls her Daddy Daddy but calls Nathan it as well. If we say "look, it's Nathan" or "go to Nathan" or anything like that she pulls her grumpy face and says "No Mummy. Daddy!" And runs at him :/.
I'm glad she's taken to him so well bvut don't know what to do here... Nathan's happy to be called Daddy if that's what she wants, and I think it might be the better option anyway with No. 2 so close to arriving and her being so young. I mean, Ben will be calling Nathan Daddy, so she's going to pick it up anyway... Just don't know if it's the right thing to do...
My main concern is if she turns round and calls Nathan Daddy in front of her father as I know he would lose it... Do you think maybe we should talk to FOB about it, or what?!
Bearing in mind FOB is abusive, has a criminal record for assault and battery, ABH and criminal damage... And the ABH was against me... :/ Eurgh! So awkward! HELP?!
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