end of the road for me

[breezee1984]

apparantly the emergency doctor lied to me and knew i had an unviable pregnancy. the baby had been dead for almost 5 weeks, and wasnt progressing. hubby and i are sick of being miserable so we've subjected ourselves to realizing we will never have children

 

[Babylicious]

I am so sorry

 

[fifi211]

I am really sorry to hear your news. Thinking of you both

 

[sunnyday]

I'm so sorry.

 

[Sammystar]

 

[CB23]

I'm so sorry

 

[Kimberly]

I'm so sorry.

 

[mum2be?]

Im So sorry hunny

 

[floppit]

So sorry to hear that Breezie.

 

[x Naomi x]

Sorry for your loss xx

 

[xx sarah xx]

I'm so sorry for your loss

 

[Gem & Leland]

sporry for your 2nd angel , many peeps have many angels watching them and go on to have successfull babies in the future ,

breeze get help this time to cope , dont let what happened before happen again , u know youve looked back and realised mistakes u made , dont do it again , get help hun honestly , will put thing in perspective for u

rest up and ytake care xx

 

[Manda&Thomas]

so sorry hun
manda xx

 

[Tiffy]

My mother had ten miscarriages plus a still birth before she had me and my sister. It IS possible to have a baby, don't give up.

 

[enn]

omg can u sue them for knowing and doing that?

 

[-Betty-]

I am really sorry

 

[Happybunny]

I am so sorry honey, how terrible sad

I am thinking of you, I know things are really low, but don't give up hope

 

[Tillytots]

so sorry to hear that honey. take lots of care

 

[floppit]

It might be a better decision than it seems to settle for life without kids. For lots of reasons I'm not going into here I'd given up on having kids and had definately decided it would be too soul destroying to try because so many things were set against us. On top of that at 36 the body clock was ticking and I have the grey hairs to prove it.

Apart from being off the pill (for well over a year) we weren't 'trying' and I'd decided I didn't want to push for it because we are damn lucky to have each other (something which had also hung in the balance). I was tired of worry and just wanted a quiet life. I was sad about it but I knew I couldn't hack not accepting it.

Then - out the blue I got pregnant! I'm not at the 12 week mark yet so who knows but this is further than I thought we really had a chance for and I think (maybe) it was because I wasn't trying.

It's quite common when people adopt and feel more at peace with life they THEN fall pregnant naturally. Even if they don't being at peace with having each other is more happiness than some folks ever have.

It sounds like you have a good relationship, someone who loves you and who you love - that's a dream come true in itself so maybe bringing the focus back to what you have will help through the healing process?

This might be such a clumsy post - I don't know how many years or decades you've been trying for, or how long you've waited against odds just to be in the position to try. I know what it feels like to have seen families for years on end, I know what it felt like when I wasn't at peace with it and how much easier and happier I was once I got at least some way there.

I'm just saying it's not always a bad choice - pregnant or not, whether this works or not it was a good decision for me, a very healthy one.

 

[Urchin]

Oh no I'm so sorry to hear this