I just got off the phone to my best friend Jess and shes just told me shes not moving, she was going to another province hours and hours away and were so close she means so much to me and i couldnt be without her as my best friend im so glad shes told me shes staying it realy made me cheer up a little .
i had a alright day, we carved pumpkins with DD at OH parents house with his sister and had a big laugh and lots of food ect i didnt have a bad day but i found out last week that my OH has started smoking again after a year of quitting before we got married and im so devistated i cried . its sooo irrisponsible and such a stupid thing to do and the wrong time- hes just a big idiot and i want to kill him for it. i never know what hes getting upto because he spends his life at the bar and with his friends or at work and im just spinning in circles how to get him to quit again as i dont even want to talk to him im so angry. i found out because he called from work to say he forgot his insulin (hes diabetic) and wondered if i knew where it was and i didnt so i went on a search for it so id have it to give to him as he pulled in the driveway- and i found a pocket of ciggies! i tore them up and threw them at him in front of the neighbours as he pulled in, i was so fuming. i found a pack in his pocket lastnight too and flushed them down the toilet. i also found porn on his laptop that really hurt me so bad it was hidden in a folder and i dont even want to go into it but i feel so betrayed and like a real peice of crap like im some peice of meat to him iukwim?! its hard to describe im just really fustrated and upset. we had money issues at the begining of the month becuse he was being stupid with money and wasting it on things that should be at the bottom of the to-do list. iv bought pretty much everything for the baby out of my savings when he has all the income in his bank account i feel like he spends the money at the bar and lies to me now hes spending it on fags and booze and im 30 weeks pregnant and so emotional. we got into it the other day and he gave me a good belt and hurt my jaw not that i didnt diserve it or anything but its so not like him! i dont know whats happened to my hubby its like hes a different person. im so tired and tearfull and i just want to go to bed but i wont sleep and my head hurts i dont even know why. Jess is the only one who understands me and all my other gfs just say oh well whats the big deal with the smoking ect and it just upsets me more .. his friends p*** me off they are in thir 30s and act like 16yr olds its pathetic. i just wish he would help me with the dishes even abit of housework a bit of attention (not taking about sex) and to want to stay in and love me and aknowledge im even pregnant!! hes gone out fishing with my friends hubby tonight and hes kissing my arse and knows im upset but im just hurting so much emotionally right now i want to cry at everything. i really would love to just hold my mum really tight and give her a big kiss but i dont even know the next time i will even see her as she cant afford to come untill atleast late Jan that just kills me i dont even what to think about it. i miss my family so much please someone just cheer me up a little.. sorry for the rant
i had a alright day, we carved pumpkins with DD at OH parents house with his sister and had a big laugh and lots of food ect i didnt have a bad day but i found out last week that my OH has started smoking again after a year of quitting before we got married and im so devistated i cried . its sooo irrisponsible and such a stupid thing to do and the wrong time- hes just a big idiot and i want to kill him for it. i never know what hes getting upto because he spends his life at the bar and with his friends or at work and im just spinning in circles how to get him to quit again as i dont even want to talk to him im so angry. i found out because he called from work to say he forgot his insulin (hes diabetic) and wondered if i knew where it was and i didnt so i went on a search for it so id have it to give to him as he pulled in the driveway- and i found a pocket of ciggies! i tore them up and threw them at him in front of the neighbours as he pulled in, i was so fuming. i found a pack in his pocket lastnight too and flushed them down the toilet. i also found porn on his laptop that really hurt me so bad it was hidden in a folder and i dont even want to go into it but i feel so betrayed and like a real peice of crap like im some peice of meat to him iukwim?! its hard to describe im just really fustrated and upset. we had money issues at the begining of the month becuse he was being stupid with money and wasting it on things that should be at the bottom of the to-do list. iv bought pretty much everything for the baby out of my savings when he has all the income in his bank account i feel like he spends the money at the bar and lies to me now hes spending it on fags and booze and im 30 weeks pregnant and so emotional. we got into it the other day and he gave me a good belt and hurt my jaw not that i didnt diserve it or anything but its so not like him! i dont know whats happened to my hubby its like hes a different person. im so tired and tearfull and i just want to go to bed but i wont sleep and my head hurts i dont even know why. Jess is the only one who understands me and all my other gfs just say oh well whats the big deal with the smoking ect and it just upsets me more .. his friends p*** me off they are in thir 30s and act like 16yr olds its pathetic. i just wish he would help me with the dishes even abit of housework a bit of attention (not taking about sex) and to want to stay in and love me and aknowledge im even pregnant!! hes gone out fishing with my friends hubby tonight and hes kissing my arse and knows im upset but im just hurting so much emotionally right now i want to cry at everything. i really would love to just hold my mum really tight and give her a big kiss but i dont even know the next time i will even see her as she cant afford to come untill atleast late Jan that just kills me i dont even what to think about it. i miss my family so much please someone just cheer me up a little.. sorry for the rant