Doctors tomorrow

[sarah1]

The gp is going to go through the results of my scans from the hospital. On the one hand I prey there is nothing wrong, but on the other I half-hope they find something that is fixable so I know that TTC will start working again.....is that stupid?!

I realised today that its almost a year ago since I found out I was pg (the one I mc). Seems like yesterday, but then also seems like years and years ago. I don't get how everyone can keep count of how long they have been trying, I have lost count of the cycles!

I just came across a nice website actually, I hope it doesn't offend anyone as its not meant to - I know that everyone here will have lovely babies and hopefully soon. But in the meantime its nice to read about people who focus on other things in life than children - don't you get sick of hearing/thinking about it? I know its awful, but I do! http://www.infertilitynetworkuk.com/moretolife/ I have been reading stories on the 'more to life' bit. Again, don't want to upset anyone - if you ignore the title its got some nice info on it xxxxxxx

 

[LouiseB]

Good luck for tomorrow Sarah

I know what you mean about not knowing which is better - good news or bad news with a solution...

I think we just want answers and bad answers sometimes seem better than no answers if you know what i mean.

Hopefully whatever you get told, you will feel more positive for it

Just make sure that you 100% understand everything that is said. I've seen girls on the forums a couple of times go to the doctor for one thing or another and they come back and they say "Ummm, does anyone know what the doctor told me means?" and they get really stressed out.

There is a forum called fertilityfriends.co.uk and that is great for finding people in the same situation in the same region or even at the same clinic/hospital.

They also have a section dedicated to people who come to the sad conclusion that they will never have their own children.

Urgh - doesn't bear thinking about

 

[Vickyxx]

I was the same when I had my scan, I wanted there to be something wrong so they could fix me and makes everything better.

TTC is hard .. I never thought it would be this hard and take up so much of my life for this long!!

I really hope everything goes well for you tomorrow and you get some answers x