Just want a general view as to what I should do as I can't decide. We already have a 5 year old daughter. Really want a boy to complete our family. After research I've found info that says to bd on your ovulation day to give the y sperm a fighting chance. Using opk for first time this month and trying to hold out (no positive yet and I'm 12 days in) should I hold out for the day? What if I miss it??? Ohhhhh the choice