did he fake it?

[newgirl1991]

I'm actually going to post this because it's been on my mind for over a week now.

BF and I are trying for a baby. Took the OPK on the 2nd which came back faintly positive so we DTD that night. On the 3rd is when I got a positive but he was working late so gave it a miss.

We DTD last night just because we were in the mood. AF not due till the 18th.

My issue is when we did it last night I felt his semen drip out of me after we finished (SORRY TMI I KNOW!) so I know he came inside and I asked him and he said yeah. However on the 2nd when we were trying I don't think he did. Nothing came out, so I think he faked it!

Regrettably I never asked him and I should have! However it's too late now to ask him.

My question is do you always feel it come out after a guy finishes in you??

He knows we're trying and that I want another baby.

 

[chattychar1990]

Yes without fail my OH’s ‘stuff’ always falls out of me.

 

[Lollypop79]

Hey. Sometimes it would come out sometimes it wouldn’t. I think it depends on the point you are in your cycle or the amount of sperm produced xx

 

[newgirl1991]

just been doing some reading and some women have said during ovulation the cervix opens up so there's a chance one of his swimmers made it up there IF he did ejaculate. Issue is I have no idea if he really did and there's no way I'm asking him. Just going to have to wait and see.

 

[Kitana]

Well if he has been "self servicing" then there is a chance there was only a small amount of it coming out. Sometimes it only comes out hours later. I don't think you should make a big deal about it though, maybe he did ejaculate and you would make him feel like a failure if you asked him otherwise. Men are very sensitive about their virility/ego/masculinity!x

 

[Layney]

I don't always feel it after sex. I've just asked my partner straight out at the time I've no shame. Think if we been having lots there isn't always as much.