Summerwine
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Hi,
I'm not sure if this is the right place for this question, but I just wanted some opinions I think as I'm not sure what to do next.
My midwife referred me to be consultant led during my booking apt, for a medical condition that is very common, which seemed like overkill to me.
12 week scan came and went, as did 16 week apt during which I mentioned that I'd had no apts through to see a consultant. My midwife told me to follow it up with Antenatal when I went to the hospital for my 20 week scan. I've now had that scan, and the receptionist at Antenatal was able to confirm that there are no consultant apts for me on their system, but she wouldn't give me any more details and said the follow up was my midwife's responsibility. I've left a message for my midwife asking that she'll call me, but she's generally pretty useless and I've heard nothing yet.
I'm not due to meet with my midwife again until 24 weeks, but I'm feeling a bit stressed (FTM) not knowing whether I'm midwife or consultant led as this will decided where I give birth. Am I being unreasonable in expecting the midwife to have this information for me by the 24 week apt?
*I do know that if baby were led the wrong way or my blood pressure became high/low I may be referred back anyway, I just want to know where I stand right now.
I'm not sure if this is the right place for this question, but I just wanted some opinions I think as I'm not sure what to do next.
My midwife referred me to be consultant led during my booking apt, for a medical condition that is very common, which seemed like overkill to me.
12 week scan came and went, as did 16 week apt during which I mentioned that I'd had no apts through to see a consultant. My midwife told me to follow it up with Antenatal when I went to the hospital for my 20 week scan. I've now had that scan, and the receptionist at Antenatal was able to confirm that there are no consultant apts for me on their system, but she wouldn't give me any more details and said the follow up was my midwife's responsibility. I've left a message for my midwife asking that she'll call me, but she's generally pretty useless and I've heard nothing yet.
I'm not due to meet with my midwife again until 24 weeks, but I'm feeling a bit stressed (FTM) not knowing whether I'm midwife or consultant led as this will decided where I give birth. Am I being unreasonable in expecting the midwife to have this information for me by the 24 week apt?
*I do know that if baby were led the wrong way or my blood pressure became high/low I may be referred back anyway, I just want to know where I stand right now.