Confused

[mrs_tommo22]

I found out last week i was pregnant. I didnt know whether to laugh or cry being way too soon after Imogens birth and everything thats happened.

But i had a miscarriage over the weekend, and feel numb, I dont know what to do and finding things hard to get on with.I fee like im moving through water and everythings in slow motion.

I wasnt going to try for another baby for a while, or not at all - i hadnt decided. But I feel the loss badly, more badly then the other two i had.

I should be thankful shouldnt I that I have two lovely kids already, but im mourning this LO hard and I dont really know how to feel.

 

[hotluck]

Can't give you any advice on this, but I'll give you these -

 

[mum2be?]

im so sorry hunny to hear this,

I am here to talk if you feel you need to.

 

[neeko_1]

sorry to hear this hun, i don't quite no know what to say, sorry

 

[Rosebay]

I found out last week i was pregnant. I didnt know whether to laugh or cry being way too soon after Imogens birth and everything thats happened.

But i had a miscarriage over the weekend, and feel numb, I dont know what to do and finding things hard to get on with.I fee like im moving through water and everythings in slow motion.

I wasnt going to try for another baby for a while, or not at all - i hadnt decided. But I feel the loss badly, more badly then the other two i had.

I should be thankful shouldnt I that I have two lovely kids already, but im mourning this LO hard and I dont really know how to feel.

Aw hun, I'm very sorry for your loss. So close to having Imogen you're bound to be finding the loss slightly different than previous losses as you're so very close to having had one and all that that means, you've also got a little baby right in front of you all the time reminding you so I can totally see that you would feel differently. I'm not sure there's a right way to feel about all of this anyway, there's just however you feel at one point about it and that changes from day to day I'm finding. How is your OH? Can you talk to him about it?


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[mrs_tommo22]

Hes been great to talk too and has been very supportive,hes dealing with it better then I am.

 

[happy-chick]

So sorry to hear that hun

 

[tracey 2]

so sorry to hear this hun, we are al here if you need to talk anytime hun

 

[zebrastripes]

so sorry
take care

 

[Manda&Thomas]

sorry hun really i am
hope you have people to help you with this
we are all here for you
manda xx

 

[tinkerbellthepixie]

hun its natural to feel sad and at a complete loss i did and i still do some days and i lost my angel in july. i didnt know i was pregnant and the time and wasnt ttc as such but wasnt preventing. it still hit me hard. i found writing everything down was much easier and i now find that it also made me realise i do want a baby! i think it also taught my bf a lot as well.

the best piece of advice is to be as strong as you can and although i know it is hard try to put it in the back of your mind xxx feel free to pm me or email me when you want to chat its nice to know someone like you xxxxxx

 

[Steelgoddess]

Its not about being thankful about your kiddies now hon, it will still hurt for a little.

Im sorry does this mean you have had three losses now?

Im so sorry

 

[libs]

so sorry hun - pm or email any time you like

 

[mrs_tommo22]

I have two children already steelgoddess but have had 3 m/c now in 4 years.

Thanks libs

 

[Steelgoddess]

I have two children already steelgoddess but have had 3 m/c now in 4 years.

Thanks libs

Im sorry hon
I know its hard

 

[mrs_tommo22]

I just want hugs and support today, not feeling very strong about it all st all

 

[x Naomi x]

loads of hugs for you hun

 

[Rosebay]

We can do hugs.... and we're all here for the support part too

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[angiemum2b]

only just read this post chick and i'm so sorry hunni i'm here if you ever need to talk x x

 

[enn]

sorry to hear that mrs tomorro. lost my baby in dec 17th 05 know how u feel because u need that many and more