alex has been really great.. i havent cooked a meal since super ted was born.. i also havent really made myself any drinks etc.. he has been let loose in the kitchen.. and you can really tell. it was spotless 9 days ago.. and now it looks like a bomb has hit it.. its really getting me down.. i jsut dont have the energy to give it a good scrub!" how can one man make so much mess and not clean up after himself!! i bleached all the sides yesterday and they are all filthy.. i just dont get how you cant wipe up crumbs n spillages.. how is everyone else or how did you cope with cleaning? did you just do it no matter how tired you felt??