Hello,
I've never wrote in a forum before so please bear with me, i just feel i need to vent aswell as write everything down to make some sense of it!!
I have been with my husband 3 years and we got married in April this year. We had some difficulty conceiving for some time due to husbands sperm count but we were ecstatic to find out we were pregnant 4 weeks before our wedding day! Life couldn't have been more perfect and we had a beautiful fairytale wedding and honeymoon and i can honestly say we had never been happier!!
Now for the worse part.....for the past 4 months my husband has been distant with me and constantly going out after work or weekends or practically living at the gym (which he is a gym fanatic!) And he would often turn up after 10pm, have a shower and go bed. We totally lost the intimacy part of our relationship though we did still have sex from time to time, and he would complain i was nagging him when i questioned his whereabouts and why i literally hadn't seen him all week! He just used to say he wasn't doing anything different and i needed to get off his back!!!!
Recently in the past 6 weeks he's been staying out all night at his friends using the excuse he doesnt want to disturb me at daft o clock in a morning! A few days ago he TEXT me after a night out to say he needed some space and he wasnt coming home! Since then i have managed to get the truth out of him which is that 5 weeks ago he met a woman out on a night out and he has been meeting up with her, staying at her house and having sex with her! She knows all about me yet doesn't seem phased. He now says he loves me but he's no longer in love with me and he feels we've grown apart and that he's been miserable for the last 5 months! He says she makes him happy and it's exciting again to feel that!
I am 38 weeks pregnant and booked in to have my baby in 1 week!!!! I have no idea how i am meant to do this now. He says he will be there for both me and the baby regardless but to me that means nothing now. How do i give birth and be happy and share a ward with happy mums and dads when my whole life has fell apart.
I do have my mum very close by and supportive friends but i dont want anyone but my husband! My heart has literally broke into pieces. I also have a 5 year old son from a previous relationship (who also cheated on me when my son was 10 months old) and i know i have to be strong for him but i literally cannot stop crying, i can't eat or sleep.
Any advice would be appreciated.
I've never wrote in a forum before so please bear with me, i just feel i need to vent aswell as write everything down to make some sense of it!!
I have been with my husband 3 years and we got married in April this year. We had some difficulty conceiving for some time due to husbands sperm count but we were ecstatic to find out we were pregnant 4 weeks before our wedding day! Life couldn't have been more perfect and we had a beautiful fairytale wedding and honeymoon and i can honestly say we had never been happier!!
Now for the worse part.....for the past 4 months my husband has been distant with me and constantly going out after work or weekends or practically living at the gym (which he is a gym fanatic!) And he would often turn up after 10pm, have a shower and go bed. We totally lost the intimacy part of our relationship though we did still have sex from time to time, and he would complain i was nagging him when i questioned his whereabouts and why i literally hadn't seen him all week! He just used to say he wasn't doing anything different and i needed to get off his back!!!!
Recently in the past 6 weeks he's been staying out all night at his friends using the excuse he doesnt want to disturb me at daft o clock in a morning! A few days ago he TEXT me after a night out to say he needed some space and he wasnt coming home! Since then i have managed to get the truth out of him which is that 5 weeks ago he met a woman out on a night out and he has been meeting up with her, staying at her house and having sex with her! She knows all about me yet doesn't seem phased. He now says he loves me but he's no longer in love with me and he feels we've grown apart and that he's been miserable for the last 5 months! He says she makes him happy and it's exciting again to feel that!
I am 38 weeks pregnant and booked in to have my baby in 1 week!!!! I have no idea how i am meant to do this now. He says he will be there for both me and the baby regardless but to me that means nothing now. How do i give birth and be happy and share a ward with happy mums and dads when my whole life has fell apart.
I do have my mum very close by and supportive friends but i dont want anyone but my husband! My heart has literally broke into pieces. I also have a 5 year old son from a previous relationship (who also cheated on me when my son was 10 months old) and i know i have to be strong for him but i literally cannot stop crying, i can't eat or sleep.
Any advice would be appreciated.