Sorry to hear what you are going through hun.
Have you had bloods done?
I had to have them 2 days apart to see how the hcg levels are. Apparantly that can give a better indication as to whats happening and, hopefully you won't have to wait so long for your scan.
Sorry i can't be much more help hun
xxx
That was their first port of call as i was too early to show up in the scan.
They can tell so much just from the bloods, i would have thaough they'd do that so as not to keep you waiting.
It's pretty horrendus sometimes as they don't really acknowledge it properly beacuse it's before 12 weeks. I kinda felt that they don't really care, when i was going through this they just said well it's really early so just expect a period sometime soon!
Not really what you wanna hear at such a hard time.
Hope you get some answers soon, limbo sucks.
xxx
Thanks carnat, your words help a lot. I really am in such a weird state of mind at the moment, one minute I'm ok and thinking how my dates could be out and that the gestational age is all that counts and so far it's not got a heartbeat purely because it's too early yet.
But then I just go so downhill, I can almost feel my heart sink as I remember what is happening. It's all so weird trying to get on with everyday things, I think havin my little boy around me helps as he's 3 and just so active and playful so I just spend my time with him, but I look at him and think "I'm losing one of these" and it just breaks my heart.
I'm still bleeding,but still no cramps. Just can't relax because I just don't know what to expect.
Oh and the mw said there was no point in a blood test as they aren't very reliable?? So today I rang the doctor to request one and they said there was no point and that of they thought it would help they'd do it.
You're really helping me tho ladies I really appreciate you sharing your experiences with me, I can imagine its hard to talk about it over and over xxxxx