gemloulau
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Hi All
I just had a call from my husband, the result of which has me sat at my desk at work sobbing.
His ex called him to pre-warn him that their daughter may be upset when he picks her up tonight (she is staying with us this weekend). My darling step-daughter started writing her Christmas list last night and top of the list was her wish that she could still have Leo for Christmas - the little brother she was so desperate to have.
It broke my hear to hear that.
She was so excited when we told her that she would be having a little brother or sister, it was lovely. She asked us to make sure it was a boy as her mother had another little girl a couple of years ago so she already had a sister.
When we lost Leo we explained to her that he was very poorly in my tummy and that he was going to live with the angels, because he wasn't strong enough to be born. She seemed so un-phased by the whole thing, was more concerned about me because I was in hospital and I was sad when I came home.
She's not mentioned Leo since. We just thought that as it hadn't got to the stage where she could sit and cuddle a little baby, that to her it wasn't a real baby, just me with a fat belly.
I guess we were wrong, poor little girl has kept it all bottled up. I feel so awful for her, she was so excited but because she had never mentioned it we didn't think to make sure she was ok.
I don't know how to make her feel better, she is only 9 and it must be so confusing.
xx
I just had a call from my husband, the result of which has me sat at my desk at work sobbing.
His ex called him to pre-warn him that their daughter may be upset when he picks her up tonight (she is staying with us this weekend). My darling step-daughter started writing her Christmas list last night and top of the list was her wish that she could still have Leo for Christmas - the little brother she was so desperate to have.
It broke my hear to hear that.
She was so excited when we told her that she would be having a little brother or sister, it was lovely. She asked us to make sure it was a boy as her mother had another little girl a couple of years ago so she already had a sister.
When we lost Leo we explained to her that he was very poorly in my tummy and that he was going to live with the angels, because he wasn't strong enough to be born. She seemed so un-phased by the whole thing, was more concerned about me because I was in hospital and I was sad when I came home.
She's not mentioned Leo since. We just thought that as it hadn't got to the stage where she could sit and cuddle a little baby, that to her it wasn't a real baby, just me with a fat belly.
I guess we were wrong, poor little girl has kept it all bottled up. I feel so awful for her, she was so excited but because she had never mentioned it we didn't think to make sure she was ok.
I don't know how to make her feel better, she is only 9 and it must be so confusing.
xx