I agree with the above, I was given options of a drug or my tube removed. If it had come to it, I would have opted for tube removal as although it reduces your chances of conceiving by about 25%, I didn't want it to happen again if my tube was left in and ended up scarred or damaged.
I started bleeding naturally which unfortunately is the best way. I still had concerns over damaged tubes and cysts, but I'm now pregnant again 2 months later and it's all in the right place.
They never told me what had happened and said they probably couldn't. Even on a scan, they can't see the tubes very well, they can just see masses, so I never really knew what had happened....not great for closure purposes!
Good luck and call your ePu - if you say suspected ectopic they will have to see you, it's too dangerous to leave it xx