Bad news... feel like i've been bulldozed..

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Hubbys results in from SA.... Nothing there. Consultant has said not to bother with any more supplements etc, he will hope for us that it changes but has said he very much doubts there will be anything different in 12 weeks. I'm trying so hard not to cry in front of hubby, I feel completely sick! So upset! :sad:
 
I'm so sorry hun! Have they said of there's anything they can do? Is it possible there's a blockage or something? xxx
 
So sorry. I can imagine you are feeling quite numb, I remember when we found out we had a problem, we were
Left in limbo, basically told there is nothing that can be done. Did they tell you that is it or give you any options of what you could do next? Xx
 
Oh my gosh I'm so sorry for such crappy news. Has your hubby been referred to a urologist for investigations? I know it's overwhelming but often icsi can still be successful if sperm can be surgically extracted. I do hope you have some options to consider when the shock has worn off xx
 
How awful for you. Has your hubby said anything about it? I would suggest getting another test just in case. Sorry if this is a silly question but he didn't use soap or anything to help do the sample did he? My friend's husband did this and there were no live sperm.
 
So sorry that you didn't have the results that you hoped for. It's utterly heartbreaking when the results are against you. Did the dr suggest any other treatment like having the sperm surgically removed them trying ICSI? We had ICSI as our issue was male mobility.
 
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Hi there really wanted to share my story to help give you some hope. We were TTC for just over a year and found out hubby had extremely low sperm count and the sperm that were there weren't mobile we wer crushed. At first we were told a natural conception couldn't happen and our only hope was ICSI. We were referred to urologist for further investigation and during this time I became quite depressed and we wer both so heartbroken. Turns out after tests, they found hubby to have a severe varicocele in one of his testicles which we wer told could possibly be affecting his fertility. Urologist offered him an op, a varicocele embolisation, to remove it but warned us that with hubby's sperm being so poor that chances were it wouldn't make much difference. We decided t go for it as felt had nothing to lose. A few months later hubby had the surgery and 3 months after that he was getting his sperm analysis redone. We braced ourselves for more disappointment but miraculously hubby's sperm wer now in the normal range with good motility! A further 4 months on and low and behold we wer pregnant! We know that his varicocele could well come bak and we won't really know if his sperm will remain normal but just feel so blessed and shows you that it can happen even when u have little hope. Big hugs xxx
 
That's a fab story. So pleased for u. Thanks for the other replies too girls. I've got mixed emotions really because I don't know if I want them to find if they're blocked or not. If they're clear it is good news but if they're blocked at least there is a reason why I'm not getting pregnant. My head is all over the place at the min.
 
Ignore that last bit girls wrong thread. God my head really is all over the place! Ha ha
 
When we got told hubby had very low count mobility etc I felt the exact same, sick to the stomach. But you need to try move fwd now, can they do icsi? If so thats your nxt step... if he has no sperm atall then u need to come to terms with stuff and maybe discuss adoption or sperm donar... I wouldn't recommend jumping into either of these as im sure ur hubby feels awful right now... but there are always options so take time to grieve and get as much info as possible xx
 

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