Thought I would set up a new post / topic as I have a few questions (just for a change!)
We have put Heidi back in our room - I have decided to do this because of what I have read recently about cot death(that it peaks between 2 and 4 months) and about that they regulate their breathing by being near you. But she is also doing something that is really worrying me.
At least once a day she retches really bad. She isnt sick but last night she woke me up doing it - and when I was at a nursery looking round she was on my friends knee (she is the one that runs the nursery) and she did it then, and my friend said it was like she had stopped breathing. So today I have been on the net and it sounds like it could be refulx / possible sleep apnea???. It is strange because the other day when I was holding her I was sure she had stopped breathing but I managed to persuade myself that I had imagined it.
To be honest I just thought the retching was her feeling sick (cos she is sick only occasionly) but the sick not coming out. Now it looks like it might be something a lot worse? Have any of you had any experience of this? I am really worried about it. I am going baby clinic at the end of the week, but wondered if any of you had experienced this.
I would also like to know what you lot do to put you baby to sleep. When I put Heidi in the cot I put her in when she is half asleep (as I heard its a good idea for them to learn to get off to sleep themselves) but she doesnt - she wakes up immediately and starts crying. Should I stand there with her? Ive heard you shouldnt rock them to sleep as they get used to it??!! and should I just let her cry and go back downstairs (some people tell me she isnt old enough to know any better, yet others say I should let her cry) Is this controlled crying????? and if so how do you do controlled crying??
I must sound totally thick but I really dont think we can be doing things right. Take last night for example. After her feed we sometimes put her in her bouncy chair (not all the time though) and she falls asleep straight away in that - the minute I try and put her in her cot she starts crying. It took ages for me to get her to sleep last night - what do all you lot do?? and is it different for afternoon naps??
Last night she slept through which is great but it takes hours and hours to get her to go sleep!??!!!
Please help!!!
L x
We have put Heidi back in our room - I have decided to do this because of what I have read recently about cot death(that it peaks between 2 and 4 months) and about that they regulate their breathing by being near you. But she is also doing something that is really worrying me.
At least once a day she retches really bad. She isnt sick but last night she woke me up doing it - and when I was at a nursery looking round she was on my friends knee (she is the one that runs the nursery) and she did it then, and my friend said it was like she had stopped breathing. So today I have been on the net and it sounds like it could be refulx / possible sleep apnea???. It is strange because the other day when I was holding her I was sure she had stopped breathing but I managed to persuade myself that I had imagined it.
To be honest I just thought the retching was her feeling sick (cos she is sick only occasionly) but the sick not coming out. Now it looks like it might be something a lot worse? Have any of you had any experience of this? I am really worried about it. I am going baby clinic at the end of the week, but wondered if any of you had experienced this.
I would also like to know what you lot do to put you baby to sleep. When I put Heidi in the cot I put her in when she is half asleep (as I heard its a good idea for them to learn to get off to sleep themselves) but she doesnt - she wakes up immediately and starts crying. Should I stand there with her? Ive heard you shouldnt rock them to sleep as they get used to it??!! and should I just let her cry and go back downstairs (some people tell me she isnt old enough to know any better, yet others say I should let her cry) Is this controlled crying????? and if so how do you do controlled crying??
I must sound totally thick but I really dont think we can be doing things right. Take last night for example. After her feed we sometimes put her in her bouncy chair (not all the time though) and she falls asleep straight away in that - the minute I try and put her in her cot she starts crying. It took ages for me to get her to sleep last night - what do all you lot do?? and is it different for afternoon naps??
Last night she slept through which is great but it takes hours and hours to get her to go sleep!??!!!
Please help!!!
L x