littlejen123
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well ladies.. im not to sure what to say so forgive me if i babble on abit..
first the good news
jess weighs 509grams and has grown a little bit..
now the bad news
the blood flow throw the placenta has rapidly deteriated (sp) so jess is getting less blood flow now than she was 2 weeks ago... they have started me on steroid shot to help mature her lungs.. and gave me and steve 2 decisions which we have to make by monday
we have to go back for a scan on monday regardless of what we decide to do
1) have jess delivered on monday
2) try and hold on a few more weeks to see if we can get her bigger and stronger
if we take decision 1 then they will deliver monday.. jess is very poorly that we already know.. but while she has a strong heartbeat and is still kicking then she MIGHT just have enuff strength to fight outside of me (but very small survival chance)
if we take decision 2 and hold on for a few more weeks to try and get her bigger and stronger then we risk losing her while she is still inside me as the blood flow is only getting worse and a delivery then wud be to late
steve and i have decided to go with decision 1 and hopefully have her delivered on monday.. i have no idea if we have made the right choice or the wrong choice all i know is that while my little girl has a gud heartbeat.. then having her delivered has got to give her more of a chance.. if see stays inside of me then things are going to get worse and she will only get weaker as the blood flows is getting worse
how do u know what the right thing to do is ??
first the good news
jess weighs 509grams and has grown a little bit..
now the bad news
the blood flow throw the placenta has rapidly deteriated (sp) so jess is getting less blood flow now than she was 2 weeks ago... they have started me on steroid shot to help mature her lungs.. and gave me and steve 2 decisions which we have to make by monday
we have to go back for a scan on monday regardless of what we decide to do
1) have jess delivered on monday
2) try and hold on a few more weeks to see if we can get her bigger and stronger
if we take decision 1 then they will deliver monday.. jess is very poorly that we already know.. but while she has a strong heartbeat and is still kicking then she MIGHT just have enuff strength to fight outside of me (but very small survival chance)
if we take decision 2 and hold on for a few more weeks to try and get her bigger and stronger then we risk losing her while she is still inside me as the blood flow is only getting worse and a delivery then wud be to late
steve and i have decided to go with decision 1 and hopefully have her delivered on monday.. i have no idea if we have made the right choice or the wrong choice all i know is that while my little girl has a gud heartbeat.. then having her delivered has got to give her more of a chance.. if see stays inside of me then things are going to get worse and she will only get weaker as the blood flows is getting worse
how do u know what the right thing to do is ??