Ashamed of my jealousy :(

[fuffins1981]

I am sooo happy when people have their babies.....Genuinely.

I know I am know at my due date....But after all the pains I have everyday....I get jealous everytime someone else gives birth

I know it is silly....But I am feeling quite low, as I have pains most the time, spd hurts like hell and walking through fangita stabbings, spd and pulling tummy is hard!

Sorry to moan. I am genuinely happy for everyone....Just not for myself

 

[Kimbo]

i used to feel jealous .. and i still do! lol

 

[claireyfairey]

Have some of these:

 

[sarah113]

when i was pg with my 4th i used to feel the same, everyone who was due after me was having their babies before me, i went 10 days over in the end

 

[abcd1234]

Fuffins i woudlnt feel bad about it, the only person i havnt felt jealous of recently is Zobo, and thats only cos she was so far over and had a long labour.

For the past week or so i've felt like it and will probably continue to as the July ladies start popping before me

 

[fuffins1981]

Thank you ladies

I am glad you understand

 

[Geordie&Bairn]

dont feel bad hun its natural and youve been through a lot

 

[miffy]

Don't worry, I think it's only natural to have a few pangs of envy - it's such an emotional time for everyone. Have to admit, having a few myself at the moment! Once we've all got our babies in our arms, all this waiting will be forgotten

 

[JoAnn&Aimee]

Don't you dare apologise for having a moan! Us ladies are entitled to a right old moan at least 3 times a day!

You have been having a real tough time, you deserve to have your LO soon! You are coping really well!

Sorry but I had a wee giggle when I read 'fangita stabbings', I know how those feel. Not nice when in public and a big one hits.

 

[Sandi4Paul]

i think after everything you have been through in the last few weeks you have the right to feel exactly what you want.

No one is going to judge you for feeling envious of these cue jumpers (anyway i do too and i haven't been through waht you have so i guess that makes me worse).

sandi

 

[Tadpole]

You moan all you like, hun.You have had a really tough time of it. I'd be a total biatch if I was suffering like that. Have some of these and feel free to moan/rant/be jealous whenever you need.

 

[Mildly]

I think you are perfectly entitled to moan what with your pains fuffins I also bet everyone gets that way when they're fed up of being pregnant and just want their baby - actually I think that is one of the coping mechanisms for dealing with the pain of birth. By the time you're fed up and jealous of other people popping, you couldn't care less how much labour pain you have to go through toi get LO out

 

[ASD123456]

I get jealous too and I have had a relativley easy pregnancy. You get jealous all you want



Alex xxx

 

[fuffins1981]

Don't you dare apologise for having a moan! Us ladies are entitled to a right old moan at least 3 times a day!

You have been having a real tough time, you deserve to have your LO soon! You are coping really well!

Sorry but I had a wee giggle when I read 'fangita stabbings', I know how those feel. Not nice when in public and a big one hits.

They are nasty. I have had one of my legs nearly go on me in public when the stabbings start!!

Thank you so much ladies . I just felt ashamed crying when I had a text from a friend to say she had her baby yesterday morning and then came on the forum and saw another birth announcement.

I am very happy for everyone. Just angry with my body, that after threatening for so long (since 28 weeks) to send me into premature labour....Once at 37, I was so relieved to have made it full term.....and now what???

Been in 'latent labour' for basically 2 weeks! They said it can last weeks ....But dammit!!!! After all the 'signs' my body has had, you think it would get its arse into gear....but noooo.....not this heap of poo!!

 

[JoAnn&Aimee]

Don't you dare apologise for having a moan! Us ladies are entitled to a right old moan at least 3 times a day!

You have been having a real tough time, you deserve to have your LO soon! You are coping really well!

Sorry but I had a wee giggle when I read 'fangita stabbings', I know how those feel. Not nice when in public and a big one hits.

They are nasty. I have had one of my legs nearly go on me in public when the stabbings start!!

Thank you so much ladies . I just felt ashamed crying when I had a text from a friend to say she had her baby yesterday morning and then came on the forum and saw another birth announcement.

I am very happy for everyone. Just angry with my body, that after threatening for so long (since 28 weeks) to send me into premature labour....Once at 37, I was so relieved to have made it full term.....and now what???

Been in 'latent labour' for basically 2 weeks! They said it can last weeks ....But dammit!!!! After all the 'signs' my body has had, you think it would get its arse into gear....but noooo.....not this heap of poo!!

I had a fangita stabbing while in the vets yesterday. I scared the young vet to death as he was already looking at me nervously as though I was about to explode, my dad found it very funny. All the while the poor cat is pooping himself because he is in the 'bad place'.

 

[abcd1234]

LOL i love this talk of fangita stabing!!! I keep doing it to and it scares Dave cos he doesnt know if im about to pop or just moaning!

I also find myself shaing my leg like a dog when it happens cos she traps a nerve!!

All very sexy

 

[lauramumof2]

I also find myself shaing my leg like a dog when it happens cos she traps a nerve!!

All very sexy

I know what you mean, I do the same thing and im not even pg. It looks so silly but relieves the pain

 

[Steelgoddess]

Not that im there yet, but i think the way you ae feeling is understandable especially with what you have been through,

Its like that episode in friends when Racheal and was in labour and everyone else keep coming and going although she was there first...

It will happen hon, the end is so near for you but understand your frustrations

 

[Squiglet]

I hated Happychick when she popped before me... I was dead jealous even though she had had a rough time of it.... it just seemed unfair... funny thing was.. the day it all got too much for me... and I didn't think I could get any lower... and I mean I was really really upset, I just cried all day... my waters went.

 

[fuffins1981]

I hated Happychick when she popped before me... I was dead jealous even though she had had a rough time of it.... it just seemed unfair... funny thing was.. the day it all got too much for me... and I didn't think I could get any lower... and I mean I was really really upset, I just cried all day... my waters went.

Sounds like a plan!!!!