arguments already this weekend.

[Bot]

He's out last night drinking. Always in a foul mood after. I do everything for dylan, all he does is hold him for a total of about 30 min a day, which is fine as he works but it upsets me that after about 5 mins he's bored and Dylan ends up in his bouncer or being held awkwardly whilst he goes on his laptop or phone!

Anyway, this morning I'm up, fed Dylan, dealt with up the back poo, had a tidy up, cleaned the kitchen, unloaded and loaded the diswasher, took him tea and juice - he moaned the tea was cold bit that's cause hed started making it ages ago. I separated the pile of bacon he started cooking pit the toaster on then went to clean dylans eye. Anyway, not sure how but the toast burnt. He went mental.

I said I was only trying to help and it might still be usuable. He said how is burning ingredients useful. Called me ******ed, ffing stupid, an idiot etc. He put the toast on a plate in the fridge and said i had to eat it later. Since he has gone on and on and I am ignoring him. He's saying I should apologise and man up. That I am ruining the weekend. That I am pathetic. I just can't communicate with him when he's like this.

Sorry for the rant. Just needed to share.

 

[Mrs. KM]

Oh my god, sorry, but what a jerk! I would gather his things and kick him out. Its one thing for him to not help out, its something else to make you feel horrible. You deserve better!

 

[Bot]

Also as I'm on my phone he just told me I don't want to interract with Dylan. He's asleep! That really upset me. Also just called me a dullard for not checking the toaster setting!? Called me an ffing idiot again. I just don't know why he's being nasty. He said I can't believe you have the netbe to say you're helping.

It's just burnt toast, why does he think that gives him just reason to be so mean. Just feel like crying.

 

[Bot]

* nerve

 

[Samsgirl]

What a knob. I'm sorry but how dare he speak to you like that.

Show him this if you like!!!!

If the weather is nice where you are I would take myself out for a little walk with baby and let him be miserable on his own! Xx

 

[Simoneh00]

Wow I dunno how you've put up with that?! What an arsehole xx

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[Mrs. KM]

Is he always like this, or is this new behaviour? I think he's being really awful to you!

 

[Princess81]

What an idiot!!!!! My god he needs to man up himself and give you some report and respect!

 

[littlemiss83]

omg i'm shocked

Why did he put toast in the fridge tho??

I'd say if its a one off its just man behaviour (at a push) but if it happens often then its a biggg problem

xxxxxx

 

[willowwisp]

I would say that if this is not typical behaviour you need to get him to a doctor, fast. If this isn't out of character then I'm afraid I'd be showing him the door or going to stay with relatives whilst he makes other arrangements for accommodation. Verbal abuse is still abuse, there is no justification in the world for someone to make you feel bad.

 

[Bot]

Thanks girls. He's lovely really just gets worked up sometimes and it really upsets me but he can't see what he's like. He gets stressed with ibs and work, then the littlest thing sets him off. Once he reacted like that because I deleted something from the sky box that said viewed! Grrr, I love him to bits, just wish he could see himself sometimes. X

 

[Bot]

Also, thanks for making me feel sane again. It's hard to know if you're overreacting when you're in the middle of it! Had a bit of a chat with him but I'm not sure he realised how wrong his behaviour is.

 

[jojo_2012]

Called me ******ed, ffing stupid, an idiot etc. He put the toast on a plate in the fridge and said i had to eat it later. Since he has gone on and on and I am ignoring him. He's saying I should apologise and man up. That I am ruining the weekend. That I am pathetic. I just can't communicate with him when he's like this. .

That is such abusive behaviour what an absolute penis. Sorry to be a bit blunt but imagine in a few years if he speaks to/treats your son like that?!

All people get stressed they don't use it as an excuse to behave like that you aren't an emotional punching bag.

 

[poppypd]

I am actually upset for you reading this story. How horrible! Please don't let anyone speak to you like that- if your son or daughter one day spoke to you like that they wouldn't get away with it! He is the one who should apologise big time!

 

[K80]

This isn't normal behaviour for a partner. It's not how other people speak to each other and he is wrong to assume he can talk to you like that. It is difficult to stand back from it all and see it for what it is but perhaps you should keep a wee diary/ note of all the times he does get mad at you for silly things and note how you feel and if you see a common pattern forming then you really need to think to yourself if this is the kind of thing you want your baby to see & hear when they are old enough to understand what's happening.
Please don't let anyone talk to you like that. You are quite obviously a strong intelligent woman who knows something is not quite right about situations like the one this morning. There is absolutely no
Excuse whatsoever for anyone at all to fly off the handle like that about toast. (Inc stress at work!)
Chin up & stay strong xxxxxx

 

[jules84]

worked up or not, is no excuse. I wouldn't talk to a dog like that!

And see that toast, break it up in little bits and flake it all over his half of the bed!

I'm disgusted xx

 

[Bot]

Haha, unfortunately I've already binned it and it would prob be me that would have to clean it! Thanks everyone. Hes a bit sheepish now. Maybe I will keep a diary, thanks for the suggestion.

I'm no angel and have my irrational hormonal moments but then am fine 5 mins after, when he's in these moods they go on and on!

 

[prettypenguin]

I would defo keep a diary hun, and then when he's not kicking off show him after a few weeks. He's out of order, I've only put up with half of that from my oh and I just packed a bag for Charlie and pissed off to my mums for the day, swear to you he's not spoken to me like that since. (it was only a few months back though, give it a few more) he needs to grow upspend more time with his family and get his head out of his arse and treat you with some bloody respect! You're running round after him and his son and he speaks to you like that? I wouldn't speak to my staff like that and sometimes they are bloody being stupid lol. Sorry if this sounds harsh hun, but you got to nip it in the bud before Lo picks up on it x

 

[i.love]

This is shocking! Absolutely shocking. Don't even know what to say!

 

[BevG]

if anyone ever spoke to me like that not only would they be wearing the toast but i would have left. i dont do arguments but either they or i would have been out the door and it would take much apologising for them to get back together with me. there is no excuse for that kind of abusive treatment