Aww hun
My OH sounds a bit like yours, with regards to making decisions, mines will discuss pros & cons of diff things but always leaves it to me to make the final decision & its very annoying. Its hard for us mummies to always be deciding.
My OH was pro- BF'ing & didn't like it that I didn't BF Kayden so he's opposite in that sense.
But it does sound like your OH would like to tell you what he wants but not in-depth reasons why iykwim, which leads you to think he's not that bothered.
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