If I'd be better off without OH. He's bloody useless! He just accused me of not being able to calm my child down! Yes he really comes home to a screaming baby every night because I'm not capable of calming him! No! I don't think so! Basically I was about to feed Tyler who's tired (and after OH was just plonked in his bouncer, no cuddles and what not and I was making him a drink so not my responsibility) I came back and went to have a play on his mat so I put him down and he fussed, so I picked him up went to try and feed him and he went mad. I started giving him cuddles and talking to him when OH goes all angrily 'give him here' and snatched him off me. When I asked him why he said 'because you can't calm him down' he walked around shushing him for a while and Tyler was still screaming so he just pretty much threw him at me! I've been walking him round the flat holding him close talking softly to him and surprise surprise it took a while but he's asleep on my chest! During me calming him down OH took him off me a few times then gave him back and I took his dungers off as he'd made himself hot. OH kept saying that he don't want anymore kids and that he's always screaming. I pointed out (ever so helpfully that he never cries when it's the 2 of us at home!) he's bow stormed off to the bedroom to sleep and again I'm left with the baby. Last night Tyler woke up ONCE he fussed and by the time I'd got him from his cot to the bed to feed him OH had stormed out to the living room and stayed there (he only sleeps in the bedroom over the weekend because of work.) I spent the morning getting Ty ready for us to go for a walk, I got him to sleep and put him in his pram told him I was brushing my teeth to which he snapped at me because I wasn't 'ready' Tyler woke up and he left him crying for me to come and sort out instead of giving him a cuddle. Sorry this is a ramble he's just so bloody useless all the time! I don't mind doing the night shift (which I do on my own every night! As well as the day shift on my own all day!) I'm bfing and that was my choice. He comes home give him a cuddle then he's given back to me when he fusses (because I can't calm him apparently!!) I'm so pissed off with him! He tells me I can't look after my boy yet I do all the looking after!!