Anyone waiting for a suprise?

[claire81]

We're not going to find out the sex, but it seems loads and loads of people have done or having sexing scans coming up (secretly jealous!!) Was just wondering whos joining me in waiting for a suprise??????

 

[kirlykird]

I was going for a surprise initially but started to get really impatient!

Plus DD wants a sister, Ds wants a brother...

I have one of each and one is going to be slightly dissapointed so we get 20 weeks to erase the dissapointment hopefully

As DS said...' if it's a girl I'll still love her mum but not as much as if it's a boy!'

See why I choose to know?

 

[Fiona]

we have decided to wait for a surprise...........

some days I can't stand the wait though and wish we had found out.. other days I am so pleased that we don't know....

such is the life of a pregnant woman

 

[Red_Fairy]

i think we're gonna wait. At first we wanted to know, but now my OH would like a suprize, and im startig to like the idea. another month to go before my 20 week scan.
(i was also told by a random that the hospital im at now wont tell you, because they've got it wrong so much in the past..... no idea if this is true tho)

 

[maybebaby]

I'm having a surprise! Nearly cracked at the scan because the sonographer asked if we wanted her to have a look! Stayed strong though and didn't find out.

OH thinks he saw some boy bits but I'm not convinced...

As DS said...' if it's a girl I'll still love her mum but not as much as if it's a boy!'

My little brother told me he'd be disappointed if I have a girl because he's already got 2 nieces! He's referred to my baby as his 'nephew' since I told him I was pregnant at 6 weeks!

 

[kirlykird]

My little brother told me he'd be disappointed if I have a girl because he's already got 2 nieces! He's referred to my baby as his 'nephew' since I told him I was pregnant at 6 weeks!

Oh how cute

 

[maybebaby]

My little brother told me he'd be disappointed if I have a girl because he's already got 2 nieces! He's referred to my baby as his 'nephew' since I told him I was pregnant at 6 weeks!

Oh how cute

He's 20!!! He should know better...

 

[kirlykird]

I thought you meant that he was quite young!

 

[maybebaby]

No, just acts it... bless him.

 

[Emmylou]

We're hoping to find out because I like to be prepared....translates to - I'm impatient & don't like surprises

 

[claire81]

Its nice to hear different views, i've always liked suprises, i'm awkward at xmas cuz i never like to tell anyone what i want as i don't wanna know!!

Plus i like the "what did she have" excitement.

But its soooooo tempting to know, 9 months is a long wait.

I just hope they don't ask if we wanna know cuz i know i'm gonna want to shout YES!!!!

The reason we're not finding out is because we have 2 girls, and OH desperatly wants a son and i don't want him being disappointed and then losing interest in the pregnancy. He swears he won't be any different, but hes a man and men lie!!!!!

 

[kirlykird]

I don't think I would want to know if I didn't have one of each already... so I understand where you're coming from there.

Initially my OH didn't want to know but I talked him round

 

[claire81]

We both kinda want to know but we're going by our first decision of NO and sticking to it!

 

[Icecream]

We are waiting. I think it is best. I can't wait to find out though, but then I also can't wait to hold my baby in my arms.

 

[kirlykird]

We both kinda want to know but we're going by our first decision of NO and sticking to it!

you have a lot more will power than me

Your wait will be very worthwhile though

 

[marchmama]

we are awiting for a surprise too, i didnt seem to mind to much if i knew the sex or nor not didnt really mind either way so left it up to husband to decide, and he really doesent want to know.

 

[sarah113]

im not finding out the sex either this time, i like surprises!!!

 

[Rubys mummy]

We are having a surprise..we nearly cracked @ 20 weeks but the sonographer didnt ask us if we wanted to know and we wereso relieved after we are glad we didnt....didnt even crack@ 4d scan

I am convinced its a boy...other people keep telling me its a girl

Not long to find out

 

[hannan]

We've decided to wait too. I'm also convinced it's a little boy.

 

[Emma22]

we are waiting for a surprise too i love surprises but always want to know at the same time, i think itll be hard at the 20 weeks scan but ill have to be strong, always said id never find out!