It's infant loss week. Not sure if it's a USA thing or global or UK or what but it's all over Instagram. Full of heart broken people at various stages of their grief.
I'm not even out yet this month but after 2 miscarriages at 6 weeks it's suddenly dawned on me that even if I got past 6 weeks I have the rest of the pregnancy to survive. The birth. After birth. Someone I know just had a diagnosis of a life shortening illness for their baby. Another had theirs dangerously premature and has ongoing medical issues.
It's absolutely terrifying.
So yea... am I the only one equally scared of getting pregnant as I am of not getting pregnant?
I spoke to an older friend about it today. She regrets waiting so much. It's too late now for her and adoption isn't an option.
I'm not even out yet this month but after 2 miscarriages at 6 weeks it's suddenly dawned on me that even if I got past 6 weeks I have the rest of the pregnancy to survive. The birth. After birth. Someone I know just had a diagnosis of a life shortening illness for their baby. Another had theirs dangerously premature and has ongoing medical issues.
It's absolutely terrifying.
So yea... am I the only one equally scared of getting pregnant as I am of not getting pregnant?
I spoke to an older friend about it today. She regrets waiting so much. It's too late now for her and adoption isn't an option.