Waiting4amiracle
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Some of us have decided to go down the adoption or surrogate mother path
I have decided that if my icsi is bfn
i get a bfp then me and dh are thinking of going down
the adoption path we have both had a real good talk about this and even had a social worker
call out to our home from one of the adoption agencys and we start our training for adoption
in june 2009.. This was somthing we have been thinking about for a few years now because of my losses
and having no explanation to my losses we thought this was the best thing so that we can be parents
and give a child a lot of love that we have to give to a child that needs it
We have asked for a baby no older than 18mths and the adoption agency said we will not get a new born but we can get a baby that is round 6mths old
Since speaking to the social worker i find out the causes to my losses and decided to give the icsi
one last go if this does not work then we will go a head with adoption and who knows later in life
i may get pregnant natural like i did in jan just gone and go on to have our own child as well as have a
adopted child
We will start the training next year in june and then it takes 8mths to see if we will be excepted on to
the adoption panel and then we will have to wait to be matched with a child that cna take 2mths 6mths even 2 yrs and longer its a long wait
Has any one elsa decided to go down this path or already have a adopted child ??
karen xxx
I have decided that if my icsi is bfn

the adoption path we have both had a real good talk about this and even had a social worker
call out to our home from one of the adoption agencys and we start our training for adoption
in june 2009.. This was somthing we have been thinking about for a few years now because of my losses
and having no explanation to my losses we thought this was the best thing so that we can be parents
and give a child a lot of love that we have to give to a child that needs it
We have asked for a baby no older than 18mths and the adoption agency said we will not get a new born but we can get a baby that is round 6mths old
Since speaking to the social worker i find out the causes to my losses and decided to give the icsi
one last go if this does not work then we will go a head with adoption and who knows later in life
i may get pregnant natural like i did in jan just gone and go on to have our own child as well as have a
adopted child

We will start the training next year in june and then it takes 8mths to see if we will be excepted on to
the adoption panel and then we will have to wait to be matched with a child that cna take 2mths 6mths even 2 yrs and longer its a long wait
Has any one elsa decided to go down this path or already have a adopted child ??
karen xxx