any help - v. serious :*(

[Red_Fairy]

gone

 

[trixipaws]

 

[HappyAlice]

Mine have a 3yr age gap so not close but I can tell you I found the second one completely different - the delivery was easier - no stitches or anything, she actually slept through the night from day one where as my first kept me up for 2 years, and also just felt so much more relaxed with 2nd one, no stress coz i'd done it all before - so what i guess im trying to say is it wont be exactly the same as when u had ur first - it might turn out ok
there arfe always solutions to space (or lack of) with bunkbeds, clever storage etc - i'm sure it'll be fine

 

[puppylove]

sorry i dont know wot to say but wanted to send some hugs

 

[x-kirsty-x]

Have these first of all

Reading your post, it seems to me that you know what your decision should be. I know how hard it is to decide though, I've been there myself.

Only you and OH know whats best, it sounds like he's being really supportive so you dont have to go through anything alone.

Dont rush into a decision that you think you might regret though. Good luck hun

 

[katyk]

I'm sorry that you have found out such a scary thing

Best wishes for you to find the right answer for you soon

 

[trigger]

Oh Hun, I am sure you will make the right decision and just be mindful whatever that decision is it will be thre right one for you and your family.

 

[Redshoes]

Whatever you decide to do it will be the right thing, it's great to hear you and your OH are talking about it, and I do hope you continue to support each other through whatever the future brings, very best wishes

 

[Hellokitty]

Nothing much to add but agree with Kirsty, don't rush into anything.

Living in a 1 bed flat I sympathise with you on the space issue.

 

[Keely]

Hiya hun

Ellis was 5 months old when i fell pregnant again and it was also an accident, to be honest i only did a test cos i thought if i just got a negative i would stop worrying and come on my period .... so you can imagin my shock when i got a positive.

I also was very upset as i also had a bad labour and a bad pregnancy, i was hospitlised with sickness with Ellis in the first 5 months. But (sorry if i offend anyone) i dont agree with abortion so I didnt have a chose.

All my family where very happy but i was dreading pregnancy and two babies so close together but i can honestly say i am sooooo happy it happened now.

Obviously i havent got my baby yet so dont know how i will cope with 2 little ones but Ellis has just while turning one, grown up soooo much. He does no baby stuff anymore and I just started to get broody again, luckly for me i dont have to wait another 9 months for my next one cos she is due in one month!!!

Also my pregnancy was not so bad, only sick till 14 weeks and i coped cos Ellis was tiny we would be slob out all day in bed!!.... if i had waiting any longer there is no way i could have been chasing him about.

I am still VERY VERY scared of labour but the excitement of the baby is over weighing that now.

Also I havent spent half as much on my new baby as Ellis cos i have sorted all his white and yellow stuff out for her. .... plus when she is born my tax credits and child benefit will go up, helping with milk and nappies etc.

Sorry if this was a bit long winded but i hope it has help in the slightest.... i can honestly say i am so happy my baby will be so close now, i never have to get pregnant again and i have got my little family.

Good luck for scan, pm me if you like as i am not online a lot at min

Keely xxxxxxxxx

 

[faithsmummy]

hello,

Well i have been through the same thing so if you want to pm me to chat feel free i dont like talking about it on the forum as last time i got alot off unsupportive people saying things but a nice handful off people supporting me!
feel free to pm me anytime!
lots of hugs
shell x x x

 

[Urchin]

Hiya I just realised I pmed you, and a bunch of other people who I thought might help, but didn't say anything in the thread, I just wanted to say I hope you are Ok