Another week off my work...

[Lianatoot]

(I dont know if this is where I should post this or not)
I am gonna take another week off my work...

Not because I am not ready to go back, physically I am feeling alot better, but I really dont think I can deal with the crap there, the place is a nightmare, so short staffed...stressfull...I was told that alot of my paperwork thats been mounting up over the last 2 weeks, is waiting for me to go back too! I am gonna use this next week to apply for other jobs..and get my house sorted (I dont think its been cleaned in 2 weeks)

I really dont think I can deal with it all at work just now...My work mates keep texting me, not to see how I am, but when the heck im going back! I just think screw you...I really want another job...

I also have this kinda emotional thing about going back too...as I started bleeding at my work after a beating by a violent patient, that I shouldent have been working with...but had to, cos there was only 2 of us on when there should have been 3 or 4, and I was left alone at the time (as my colleauge had to leave the unit to help in another unit)

So yeah, the doctor said he would write me another line no problem.

I have applied for a job already with womens aid, so fingers crossed for me!

 

[Suzie and Faith]

hope you get a job that is better for you.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mibiuk]

Hi Lianatoot,

Good for you hun, you have been through enough at the moment and should not feel rushed to going back to work! Specially after the incident at work too! I was off for three weeks when I lost mine in November went back the last week running up to Christmas surrounded by loads of paperwork and snotty remarks! Some people have the sensitivity of a turd.. they think because its gone you should be running a fricking marathon! IMO i would take the time YOU need not what suits them.. I'm glad to be leaving my job in the next 2 weeks its been hell since I got back and even worse after dropping on them I was pregnant again!

Sorry for my rant but b***ox to some people!

Take care hun and PM me if you want
mibiuk

 

[Lianatoot]

I am glad that you have another job Mibiuk, that good!

I phoned them today to say I woudlent be back tonight..I said "Urghh its just been a nightmare really" and my boss aid "Umm yeah at both ends" What a cow! all she said was "Yeah I heard" when I told her I had lost the baby.

I dont even feel guilty about being off again now, with her attitude!

 

[*sara*]

Good for you, i hope you find something better. I went back to work today, wasnt as bad as id expected. xx

 

[mrs_metal]

Good for you! if they're going treat you like cr@p you owe them nothing. You could probably sue them for the incident at work so they should be doing their best to make everything welcoming and as easy for you as possible! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you that you find a much better job asap

 

[lauramumof2]

Thats shocking. Your employer should have a duty of care for its staff. Are you in a union, if so, it might be worth speaking to someone. Its just unacceptable.

I hope you find a different job, come down to saltcoats and work with me

Seriously though, dont go back till you are ready mentally as well as physically. You know that anyway

 

[tracey 2]

dont go back hun if you dont feel emotional or physically ready at all, it wont help believe me i know i went back to work too soon and no im taking more time, im sorry your colleagues are not suporting you enough and good luck with finding a new job i think you deserve it

give me shout if you want to talk anytime xxx

 

[Lianatoot]

Thanks very much for the support! I will prolly have to go back next week..as unfortunatly finacially I cannot afford anymore time off..

I have applied for a job working with The Womens Aid, which would be a totaly fantastic job, and something I think I could be really good at and make a difference. So fingers crossed on that!

 

[tracey 2]

good luck with new job i hope your successful you deserve it hun, and i wish you luck for going back to work, just think it wont be for ever