Last night I went to my local for a couple of drinks with OH and a few friends. OH best mates daughter was there, she is 23 and has 2 kids, 1 & 2 years old. I was talking about Rubie's birth and mentioned that I was a bit disappointed to have missed Christmas (because Rubie was born Xmas day) and she came out with 'that's selfish'. Now I feel terrible I never thought of it that way, I was only being honest. Obviously it goes without saying that the most important thing is that I got a beautiful healthy daughter, but I was a bit disappointed that I was ill in hospital all Christmas day. Am I selfish or is she just nasty to say that to me??