Thank you ladies. It's hard because she seems to forget what happened to me. She was showing me photos of the baby's room and all the things she's bought. I smiled and nodded a lot, but felt like crying. She's behaving like my mc didn't happen. I know no one wants to think about mc especially when they're pregnant, but I just wish she was a little more sensitive. I can't say anything though, because my other sis criticised her over nothing and there was a big fallout over it and my other sis got the blame. Last week, we bumped into her and she was making nasty comments about my DH to his face, because she thinks she can get away with it.
My dad doesn't help. He barely talks to me now but can't get enough of my pregnant sister. That just makes it worse. It feels like he's saying ' you're not pregnant any more, so you don't matter', which really hurts. I can't say anything to him either, because he will just say I'm being nasty about my sis.
She told me it would be a mistake not to try again and that it wasn't like it was my only chance. She's missing the point. I wanted the baby I had. Sorry for the essay - just having a bad day x x