am i having a miscarriage?

[Manda&Thomas]

aww hun i a truly sorry i thought all would be fine i really did
when i had my miscarage i optided for a d&c as i thought its over and done with then as you dont get all the cramping you will with letting nature take it course and its very quick you can be in and out withing a few hours
i dont no about the other thing sorry i wasnt offerd it
manda xx

 

[muppetmummy]

I'm really sorry to hear that hun

 

[Steelgoddess]

Oh no Hon im so so sorry

Im here if you ever need to pm anyone. I'll also pm you now too...

 

[x Naomi x]

I am really sorry hun

As you know i didnt need a D&C for my loss as my baby must have died around 5 and a half weeks and i was lucky i had no cramps just the heavy bleeding, A friend of mine at work had her loss at 11 weeks although the baby died at 7 weeks - she too didnt want a D&C but she did have bad cramping pains and she actually passed her little bean

I think its whatever you think you can deal with the best, everyone is different and some people it helps them to get over things better by having the D&C as its quicker i think

I am always here if you need to talk hun

 

[tots hope]

Sorry to hear of your loss x x x

 

[miffy]

Sorry for your loss xxx

 

[Bloom]

Im sorry to hear this.

 

[Mice_Elf]

I was so hoping everything would turn out ok.

Am sorry for your loss.

 

[Happybunny]

aww, this is just terrible news, I am so sorry sweetie.

I can't give advice on which method to go with, mine just came away naturally, I didn't get a choice. It was like a very heavy, long and painful period, but I could manage with iboprofen and paracetamol. I was glad I didn't have to have any intervention, although passing your little one is very upsetting.

I hope everything passes very quickly for you, I think you have suffered enough

M
xxx

 

[sarafet]

i'm so sorry sweetie

please take care of yourself xxxx

 

[happy-chick]

Im very sorry for your loss

 

[Misslarue]

so sorry hun, thinking of you

 

[scottishterrier]

so sorry for your loss. please take care x

 

[oldmama]

i was in the same situation as you a few years ago (at BRI). I OPTED FOR D&C BUT SINCE READ ABOUT A GIRL (AT BRADFORD HOSP) THAT WAS TOLD BABY HAD DIED AND SHE NEEDED A D&C AND THEN SHE MADE THEM (PRACTICALLY FORCED THEM) TO DO ANOTHER SCAN BEFORE THE D&C. THEY FOUND A HEARTBEAT AND THE BABY WAS BORN 30 WKS LATER. BECAUSE OF THIS I WOULD WAIT FOR IT TO TAKE IT'S OWN COURSE. IF YOU STILL NEED A D&C THEN HAVE ONE LATER.

YOU DONT HAVE TO RUSH INTO THIS DECISION - I DID - I THOUGHT THAT IF I PUT IT OFF THEN I WOULD HAVE TO THINK ABOUT MY DEAD BABY INSIDE ME - BUT IN HINDSIGHT I WOULD WAIT.

DONT KNOW IF THIS HELPS AT ALL - AND ALL MY LOVE TO YOU - BE STRONG AND BE WEAK, CRY WHEN YOU NEED TO, REALLY REALLY CRY, JUST BECAUSE YOUR BABY WASNT 20WKS DOESNT MEAN YOU SHOULD MOURN ANY LESS - TAKE YOUR TIME AND GRIEVE. XXXX

 

[mummy26]

hi, thanks for your messages.still feeling upset just having high and lows with my mood constantly changing.
iv been booked for monday morning just want it over with iv started passing bigger clots and scared of any infection so better if its done soon.
dont really know if i can try again really dont feel hopeful keep thinking its gonna happen again.

 

[Tillytots]

aww hun so so sorry this has happened to you

take lots and lots of care, thinking of you
x x

 

[sunnyday]

So sorry to hear this, look after yourself and good luck for Monday

 

[timsmom]

Oh hell honey, I am so sorry . Followed the thread earlier in the week and just picked it up again.

God bless and take some comfort in knowing we are ALL thinking of you.
Jenxx

 

[mummy26]

hi, just thought id let you all know that i had the d and c yesterday. there was alot of waiting around and the pesseries was the worst bit but honestly it was over b4 i knew hopefully iv got some closure because the constant bleeding and fear of passing clots was a nightmare.
just going to wait and try for another.
how long shoud i wait? i was 5mths preg in march and lost that and three months with this.

 

[Manda&Thomas]

glad its alkl over now for you hun
d&c's normaly are the better choice as then its done and over with so we can all get closure
how long you wait is up to you i dint "try" after mine and fell on my 2nd cycle some people fall straight away and some wait months and months
it should be when you feel completly ready and able to deal with being pregnant again
wish you all the best hun
manda xx