Hi.
I am pregnant and I am very happy and excited about the pregnancy. I am very much looking forward and having fun with preparing.
But there are some worries I have about me and my husbands relationship, and I am a little embarrassed to express these, as I feel like these worries are wrong and foolish.
But anyway, here I go.
I am afraid of that me and my husbands relationship is going to change too much. I love how our relationship is now like sleeping in each others arms every night, cuddling, holding hands, deep conversations, the spontaneous ways we get it (you know it) started like just looking at me from behind and both have high drive. I don't want our relationship to die out, of course little have to give when it's not only him and me, but i don't want us to become someone who live together like they are roommates who raise a children together and not wife and husband, and I still want to be able to be the one that he fantasize about and long for. Make me sad to hear he don't want to touch my chest if i breastfeed because he says he think it will feel wrong, but anyway I want to breastfeed and that is what I will do. But these thoughts make me afraid and I want to tell but I fear like i sound to silly.
Also looking at his family, he don't have a very good relationship with them and not too much contact, live in African country, and many of them it's like the mother does it ALL, no exception, the man come home to eat and sleep, he spend no time with his family, no time with his children, no time with his wife, he maybe make one joke with the children and that's it, never sit with it, and he never touch his wife and shows no appreciation about all she do for make a nice home for him and their children, only complain about all the small things that is wrong. I tell you this is not comforting pictures when you worry about your relationship, me and my husband is so different from them, but still make me more afraid.
I also want to cherish this time, remember the time where i am pregnant, and where it is him and me and where we are both excited and happy about the pregnancy. We normally live together there, but I wait for him to fix his visa so we can live here instead of for the children so it's difficult and I miss him, waiting is hard, and I don't know if stay here or go, although everything about the doctor and hospital is better here, unless you pay a smaller fortune, so i should wait here alone.
I am pregnant and I am very happy and excited about the pregnancy. I am very much looking forward and having fun with preparing.
But there are some worries I have about me and my husbands relationship, and I am a little embarrassed to express these, as I feel like these worries are wrong and foolish.
But anyway, here I go.
I am afraid of that me and my husbands relationship is going to change too much. I love how our relationship is now like sleeping in each others arms every night, cuddling, holding hands, deep conversations, the spontaneous ways we get it (you know it) started like just looking at me from behind and both have high drive. I don't want our relationship to die out, of course little have to give when it's not only him and me, but i don't want us to become someone who live together like they are roommates who raise a children together and not wife and husband, and I still want to be able to be the one that he fantasize about and long for. Make me sad to hear he don't want to touch my chest if i breastfeed because he says he think it will feel wrong, but anyway I want to breastfeed and that is what I will do. But these thoughts make me afraid and I want to tell but I fear like i sound to silly.
Also looking at his family, he don't have a very good relationship with them and not too much contact, live in African country, and many of them it's like the mother does it ALL, no exception, the man come home to eat and sleep, he spend no time with his family, no time with his children, no time with his wife, he maybe make one joke with the children and that's it, never sit with it, and he never touch his wife and shows no appreciation about all she do for make a nice home for him and their children, only complain about all the small things that is wrong. I tell you this is not comforting pictures when you worry about your relationship, me and my husband is so different from them, but still make me more afraid.
I also want to cherish this time, remember the time where i am pregnant, and where it is him and me and where we are both excited and happy about the pregnancy. We normally live together there, but I wait for him to fix his visa so we can live here instead of for the children so it's difficult and I miss him, waiting is hard, and I don't know if stay here or go, although everything about the doctor and hospital is better here, unless you pay a smaller fortune, so i should wait here alone.
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