Advise Please!!!

[kit_pike]

When I was 10 weeks me and my partner had sex for the first time since finding out I was pregnant, after sex I was bleeding and it lasted about 3-4 days, there was blood mainly when wiping and slight spots in my underwear. I went to the GP and they booked me an early scan and everything was fine.
When I wasn't pregnant I had trouble with bleeding after sex but only slight and only lasted the night as I have a small ectropion.

My partner is now wanting to have sex again. I am 14 weeks now but I am soo terrified of having sex again because of the bleeding even though I know it is most likely down to the ectropion as the midwife advised I still can't get the feeling out my head that something may gone wrong. I don't think I can keep going through the emotional stress of it all.
Would anyone suggest anything to help?? Any advise would be great.

Thanks
Kirsty
(First time pregnancy)

 

[Princess81]

I'd say relaxation but it doesn't sound like you will be relaxing at all
If the midwife says it's ok then I'd trust her judgement really, maybe just try to stay as relaxed as you possibly can and ask your o/h to be gentle. However, if you don't want to have sex then that's your decision and he has to accept it.

 

[pringle88]

If its making you worry dont do it, im sure your OH will understand, you could just do other 'stuff' together and avoid him going inside of you that way you are both happy and you neednt worry about bleeding. hope you work something out xx

 

[BabysMomma]

^^WSS^^

I was gona suggest maybe doing "other stuff" bar flown blown sex too. As you're worried about it, you'll more than likely not be able to relax and enjoy the sex, then you'll be worrying afterwards too.

I'd explain how you feel to your OH if you can, and then maybe have fun thinking of other ways to be intimiate. x