admitting your ttc

[chellieboo]

Well I can't believe I just did that...I finally told the first person (other than you guys) that we're trying.

Was feeling really down about it and it just came out while chatting to my big sis. She has now insisted on coming over tomorrow to cheer me up! Had to make her promise not to tell anyone though and also not to ask about it all the time.

She's never had to try herself for either of her kids, but said she has friends who are trying so she knows what we're going through.

Feels strange that someone knows!

I hope I don't regret telling her.

Hope OH doesn't kill me when he gets home and i tell him she knows.....although the other weekend at hers he kept almost putting his foot in it anyway so he can't blame me...can he?

 

[MaybeMummy]

Perhaps it may be easier for you now... you both have someone to talk too

 

[Gem & Leland]

im sure he wont hun , u need some one to talk to about it , i mean were great yes but its not like having proper support at home .

think loads of people know where trying , but luckly they dont pesture us !

 

[lainey]

I told my sister Chellie too and my best friend - I had to, i got so fed up of bottling up all my feelings and getting myself worked up. I always spoke to my fiancee. But some things I couldnt tell him. We tell each other most things but some things i just really wanted to tell a female and not my bloke.

You probably have lifted abit of a weight off your shoulders hunny

 

[fothers]

After my miscarriage everyone knows we are ttc and they don't keep asking which is great but also if I am a bit down or something I can chat to my friends or my mum. I am glad people know

 

[Manda&Thomas]

my sister and my best friend nose hes very surpotive even offered a jar of his sperm incause my blokes doesnt work lol
my sisercon the other hand well read my rant bit lol
my bloke has told anyone who listens that we are trying
manda x

 

[mum2be?]

I think everyone knows we are TTC, yer i get asked by some, but most dont bother they know once i am they will be firts to know lol

I find it easier to let people know

 

[skairdykat]

OH told one of our friends. On Saturday he came round to play darts with my OH and did nothing but pester me about it. Really pissed me off he did. OH has had a word not to keep going on about it now. He's just the kind of person who's proper nosey LOL. He seems to think that just because he's our mate that we should tell him everything. He was even asking if I was ovulating!!! I'm like 'What's it got to do with you?!'
WE had to tell him otherwise it would end up like there was three of us trying LOL. I got a bit upset when he went home and told OH that I wished he hadn't told him 'cause it's meant to somethin just between us not us and his dart buddy. I mean I wouldn't have minded him telling him but I knew what he would be like. Hopefully he'll keep his gob shut noe though.
I've not told any of my friends yet.