Wanted to ask some advice from you ladies who are unfortunate enough to have suffered a MC. There is a friend of the family that I've known for a long time and recently gotten closer to by e-mail. She was one of the first who knew I was pregnant, she was really excited and said she was looking forward to meeting the baby. She mentioned that she loves being involved with babies because she can't have her own so I've been telling her about my pregnancy and everything. Then I found out from someone else that she had a miscarriage a few years ago and now she cant have a baby and it is still a very sore subject, and she still finds some baby stuff really hard to cope with, now I'm wondering if I'm sharing too much. I know she genuinely wants to meet the baby and be an 'auntie' but I'm wondering if talking about pregnancy stuff is just upsetting. I had a CP myself and for a while after didn't really want to look at other peoples babies or pregnant women because they made me cry but because I lost it so early I didn't go through any of the pregnancy stuff like doctors and scans so that stuff doesn't bring the same emotions for me as it might for her. I'd appreciate some advice from women who have suffered loss on how I can be empathetic to her feelings but still involve her where I can. How would you feel about it and how much would you want to be involved?