Alfie is now 9 months and still wakes 3-4 times a night for a feed i know this is mainly comfort as he eats everything during the day and has a big feed before going to sleep. He will not take a bottle/dummy for comfort what should I do? Do I just refuse to feed him and have a rough week or so till he gets the message? and because he wakes so much he has still yet to sleep in his cot all night, any advice would be a god send, thanks x