6th loss

[Lulla Bell]

Currently having my 6th loss.the last three have all been chemicals, but none the less it still hurts!
How can this be happening? All my tests come back normal too... So the doctors are as much use as a hooker in a monastery. Am I now expected to just live with this?

 

[Melly41]

I love your analogy! But really sorry to hear about your 6th loss. Its so frustrating for you. Will they not eventually explore other options with you? Not dure what they would be but thete must be something....surely!

 

[LucyC]

So sorry to hear about your loss, have you had your nk cells tested? I was looking into tests for recurrent miscarriage and read about tests for killer cells, if all your other tests are coming back normal is this something you could look into?

 

[candymycandy]

Oh lulla I'm sorry. A CP is a loss/miscarriage as well so just a painful. I hope you can get some answers x

 

[Pinkz]

Oh my lulla... I'm so sorry you are going through this. Must be absolutely awful.

My honest opinion... I would fight for a second or 3rd opinion. You need answers. Someone needs to do something for you. Having had my 2nd miscarriage I've realised how badly it's affected my mental health and it's just not productive for a doctor to allow you to continuously go through this with no answer or even plan of how to go forward!

Please push them. Make a fuss of yourself. You deserve so much better treatment than to be ignored!

 

[hopeful1976]

Honey so so sorry, sending you hugs , and don't really know what to say...I know it will happen eventually, I know it for a fact trust me, but i realise when someone says it to you right now, it is not of much help...Sorry.Hang in there buddy and please don't give up Xxxx

 

[Lulla Bell]

Hey ladies sorry for not replying, I actually forgot Id posted this,
Well I was told the wait for a specialist on the NHS was another 6ish months!
So Ive now decided to go private!
I have a appointment on the 3rd with a specialist who has come highly recommended.
And we have booked a slot at a adoption information day for the 9th.... You cant start the process until you're 6 months clear of any Mc or treatment, so we figured we would find out our options and go from there.
We really don't mind how we make our family, Were just desperate to become one.
Ill keep you all updated xx

 

[Melly41]

And when you do start it......youll be amazing x

 

[miamia]

I am sorry. There are too many reasons why a woman might experience pregnancy loss. I would recommend seeing yr doc to discuss the issue and doing additional tests (karyotyping). Chromosomal aneuploidy is one of the most common reasons of mcs, particularly during the 1 trimester. Hope this helps xx