he he we all need a bit of TLC sometimes, she has seen me at my worst over the years, she has seen me come through the other side of depression, and through all sorts, now I have my life on track and she said to me "do you feel really proud of yourself for all you have come through?' and I said err yes I think I do now and she told me I was lovely, I was a bit embarrassed but it felt good hearing it, I think we all nee da bit of positive feedback from time to time lol xx