Hi, thank you for clicking! On Thursday morning I fainted and cracked my front teeth. Apparently this runs in the family as I have never fainted before and am not ill, and with a late period my mom made me take a test, which was positive. I've been to Florida in the last three weeks and have taken tablets for two weeks (Utovlan?) to prevent my period, which you aren't supposed to take when pregnant, as well as gone on roller coasters etc so the baby could be dead or have been damaged...
I am with my boyfriend of almost two and a half years and we have lived in a flat together for round 2 months now. He's very supportive but I have recently suffered from severe depression and I've ended up in hospital because of it - he isn't sure I'd be able to cope with a baby. He also only earns around 12 grand after tax- just enough for us two - I don't work after dropping out of uni, I've been trying to get into vet nursing. My parents/family are not pushing me to abort but they are hinting that we simply can't afford it which is true, and that it just isn't a good time and isn't practical at all right now. My boyfriend doesn't want to go down the adoption route and I want it to be agreed on by both of us.
I'm turning 20 early September so it's not my age; it's just the financial (mainly) and also mental situation especially since post natal depression runs in our family. I think my family would support me if I kept the baby and my boyfriend definitely would; he doesn't want an abortion any more than I do but he agrees it's the most practical thing at the moment.
I know this is our decision to make but I'd really love some advice right now, I have a scan Monday and I'll ask about the tablets i've taken but I think i'm around 8 weeks along so not long to act until it's too late for the abortion pill which would be my preferred method if I did go through with it.
Thanks so much for reading this.x
I am with my boyfriend of almost two and a half years and we have lived in a flat together for round 2 months now. He's very supportive but I have recently suffered from severe depression and I've ended up in hospital because of it - he isn't sure I'd be able to cope with a baby. He also only earns around 12 grand after tax- just enough for us two - I don't work after dropping out of uni, I've been trying to get into vet nursing. My parents/family are not pushing me to abort but they are hinting that we simply can't afford it which is true, and that it just isn't a good time and isn't practical at all right now. My boyfriend doesn't want to go down the adoption route and I want it to be agreed on by both of us.
I'm turning 20 early September so it's not my age; it's just the financial (mainly) and also mental situation especially since post natal depression runs in our family. I think my family would support me if I kept the baby and my boyfriend definitely would; he doesn't want an abortion any more than I do but he agrees it's the most practical thing at the moment.
I know this is our decision to make but I'd really love some advice right now, I have a scan Monday and I'll ask about the tablets i've taken but I think i'm around 8 weeks along so not long to act until it's too late for the abortion pill which would be my preferred method if I did go through with it.
Thanks so much for reading this.x