Finally had a chat with my DH about his EX. When we first got together i knew about her because he was really down about being alone (they had been together for 1.5 years and it was the longest relationship he'd had - was his 1st gf too). Thats really all i knew and tbh i didnt want to know about ex's and stuff.
Anyways we had a big chat the other day about ex's and we both chatted about stuff that had happend that made us upset. He told me his ex had left him and he still loved her so stayed her friend because it was the only way he could see her again. it was so upsetting. I asked if he was still upset about it and he said 'no, i dont feel anything for her but i hate the way she treated me'. Normally i would have been upset at the fact that he was thinking about his ex (even though id asked) but i feel really good talking about it, hes so sweet.
I feel so proud of us both, feels like a lot of weight has been lifted and we both seem a lot closer some how. Hes also been a lot happier the last couple of days.
I feel like its our first date again, its so weird and exciting
Just wanted to tell some one