hi all
Firstly thanks for reading
I have just answered a post on this forum about being stressed with ttc and thought it would be good to post my answer in a new subject.
If anyone agrees with what i've said please add your comments so it will give all these 'stressed' ttc'ers some hope and help, (remember we were there once too, feeling the despair they are feeling)
Right, here's my story
1st baby we were ttc for 13 months, I went to doc she did the paperwork to refer me for test etc well that was it, i resigned myself to the fact something was wrong and i was NEVER going to have kids, 3-4 weeks later BFP...
2nd baby thought it was going to take ages to concieve again so started trying 6 months after dd1 was born, again thinking nothing was going to happen..BFP straight away!
3rd baby thought it was going to happen quickly, tried for 12 months again, got tests from doctors who said it looked like i wasn't ovulationg, again was going to refer me to chlomid and because i thought i wasn't ovulating i must have relaxed again and wham BFP
Came off pill in on feb 4th this year knowing it was going to take ages again, wham BFP staright away
do you see the pattern girls??? I know its harder than anything in the world to think of anything else than a baby 24/7 at this stage but it sure doesn't help ttc. You need to relax. relax. relax
I was on another board when i was ttc 3 and was friends with a girl who had pcos and had been trying for ages, i told her to resign herself to the fact she was NEVER going to get pregnant, she just had to make it sink in and stop thinking about ttc, not even plan BD, do it when you feel like it you gotta tell yourself you won't catch anyway so whats the point in trying KWIM.. she got herself a BFP the following cycle. I've just heard from her and she was saying they DTD 'once' unprotected around O time and she's just got her BFP so there ya go, once in a cycle!!!
The months i caught we never DTD that often anyway, neither of us have a very high sex drive but as soon as i 'catch', my sex drive (what i do have) runs for miles
I hope this gives you girls something positive to hold onto, i know most of you will be thinking you'll never get the baby you want so you're halfway there, the other half is really letting go and believing this
buckets and buckets of babydust to you all, you'll get your BFP's soon, don't you fret
Firstly thanks for reading
I have just answered a post on this forum about being stressed with ttc and thought it would be good to post my answer in a new subject.
If anyone agrees with what i've said please add your comments so it will give all these 'stressed' ttc'ers some hope and help, (remember we were there once too, feeling the despair they are feeling)
Right, here's my story
1st baby we were ttc for 13 months, I went to doc she did the paperwork to refer me for test etc well that was it, i resigned myself to the fact something was wrong and i was NEVER going to have kids, 3-4 weeks later BFP...
2nd baby thought it was going to take ages to concieve again so started trying 6 months after dd1 was born, again thinking nothing was going to happen..BFP straight away!
3rd baby thought it was going to happen quickly, tried for 12 months again, got tests from doctors who said it looked like i wasn't ovulationg, again was going to refer me to chlomid and because i thought i wasn't ovulating i must have relaxed again and wham BFP
Came off pill in on feb 4th this year knowing it was going to take ages again, wham BFP staright away
do you see the pattern girls??? I know its harder than anything in the world to think of anything else than a baby 24/7 at this stage but it sure doesn't help ttc. You need to relax. relax. relax
I was on another board when i was ttc 3 and was friends with a girl who had pcos and had been trying for ages, i told her to resign herself to the fact she was NEVER going to get pregnant, she just had to make it sink in and stop thinking about ttc, not even plan BD, do it when you feel like it you gotta tell yourself you won't catch anyway so whats the point in trying KWIM.. she got herself a BFP the following cycle. I've just heard from her and she was saying they DTD 'once' unprotected around O time and she's just got her BFP so there ya go, once in a cycle!!!
The months i caught we never DTD that often anyway, neither of us have a very high sex drive but as soon as i 'catch', my sex drive (what i do have) runs for miles
I hope this gives you girls something positive to hold onto, i know most of you will be thinking you'll never get the baby you want so you're halfway there, the other half is really letting go and believing this
buckets and buckets of babydust to you all, you'll get your BFP's soon, don't you fret