That's very true, we have become closer too and its so true what you say about sex, haha! Trying to do it as its a 'good' time and putting so much effort into it!
I was thinking yesterday maybe I need to rethink my focus and maybe the main part of my life isn't the 'mum' part? Maybe its the 'now' part, my career decisions and achievements, different places I've lived, different relationships, building the relationship with DH, our achievements together, what we've created in terms of our home and our lives now. Maybe the 'mum' part will come later and be an addition rather than my whole identity?