Why do we HAVE TO poas!?

[positivity :)]

OK so i'm 9dpo today, had sore boobs since ovulation, everyone told me to poas only from 10dpo onwards but i had a FR in the house and done it today instead, i mean 9dpo is nearly 10po right....BFN!! couldn't have been more BFN if it tried

i'm due AF on saturday which makes today 6 days before the first day of a missed period, and this FR test claims to be able to pick up the hormone at this point so i think i'm out.

i wish i waited until tomorrow but i just couldn't, so now i've wasted a FR test and i'm really peed off!

i would like to think its too early but those FR are really good. i just don't understand why my boobs are so sore?! they calmed down yesterday but started up again last night and today!

oh well, i suppose its just another trick of the female body - boo hoo

 

[yorksmummy]

Don't lose hope, FR didn't work for me, with my last baby I tested with FR with the first one of the day 6 days before and BFN. CD digital picked her up 6 days later. FR say it'll give a positive in 60ish% of pregnancies 6 days early. You could be in the 40ish% it doesn't work for. FX x

 

[positivity :)]

ah thanks YM, its so frustrating because i read the box and thought that too, maybe i'm in the 40% but i have a bad feeling not very positive of me is it lol? xx

 

[Kezzamunster]

Oh hun, sorry about the FR

Every BFP story I read I find there's hope for us cos they are all different & aren't what the text books say etc, so just cos the FR are really good doesn't necessarily mean it will work straight away for you hun

Hope I'm making sense

xxx

 

[positivity :)]

of course yuor making sense

i dont know kezza, don't know if this makes sense but i feel less and less like i'm going to see that second line as each day goes past - u know when you think, it just doesn't happen to me!!? plus that BFN kinda confirmed it and i feel like it was a sign to get my head back to reality! xx

 

[yorksmummy]

I think that expecting a BFN makes it easier on us. I am waiting until Sunday to test, DH is convinced that I am, I am still saying I am not. Then if AF arrives I'll not be as gutted. Hope you get your BFP soon. x

 

[positivity :)]

i usually do that, its not like me at all to think i'm preggers and this is my 8th cycle. once before, i think in cycle two i was convinced i had lots of symptoms and was pg but then af arrived, since then i have never let myself get my hopes up..until now! should have learned my lesson last time! xx

 

[Kezzamunster]

Just wanna give you big

xxx

 

[Nurse 26]

Hey positivity! it depends on the individual when the egg implants and a couple of days after that yuo start producing the hormone!

I think its too early for you.If yuo read the box it says that they have low accuracy that early.

Hope you get a BFP this month

 

[positivity :)]

thanks nurse, everyone on here is so lovely and supportive.

i'm very proud of myself, i just went to boots for some shampoo, walked over to the pg tests and the clear blues are on offer - i would sooo normally buy one but i've decided, i am going to new york on thursday, due af saturday, so i'm not doing anything before i go to NY and won't be able to when i'm out there as i'm going with friends so that's it, i'm leaving it to the gods, hopefully when i return next tuesday i will be able to tell you all that she hasn't arrived!

that horrible witch better not turn up in new york - she is sooo not invited on this holiday!!! xxxx

 

[Piglet's Mama]

Hunny, you are only 9DPO so don't give up! I never used a FR but like every type of test and like Kezza said, they work differently for everyone. I POAS with CBD at 12DPO and on a cheapy at 11DPO and got a v.v faint line. Maybe try again at 12DPO, have you got any cheapies? X

 

[cosmicgirl]

I soooooooo do not trust these early tests, I think it's hard enough to get it to recognize a BFP on your due date, never mind 6 days before!! Xxx

 

[maybe baby]

Ignore it Hun, It's way to early!

Fingers crossed the witch stays away!

Where you staying in New York? I went in June and stayed in SoHo, shall I send you the itinerary I wrote for my mate who went recently?

xx

 

[positivity :)]

maybe, yes please!!! i wanted to stay in soho but it was too expensive so we are staying in the hilton garden inn which is midtown, i'm so excited, i would LOVE ready made itinery!! thank you! xx

 

[positivity :)]

no jen i dont have any cheapies coz i never usually poas believe it or not!! it's only becuase i have had these signs. normally i just wait for af - normally i'm sensible!! xxx