Why are people so selfish.

[Belle23]

I'm fuming why is it people who break the law and already have children can steal someone's thunder, my so called best friend has had twins, has broke the law has got everything she has wanted and yet me and my husband have tried for everything and worked our arses off for everything we have and tried and lost and now got Bfp and got to the same point we did last time and she pregnant and it's an 'accident' she wasn't even trying, why do people like that get handed everything except she can't even handle the twins she has. I love my niece and nephew but she doesn't appreciate them and now she is pregnant again and all I can think is if I lose mine and she gets hers once again she gets everything
I know I'm props being irrational but hormones and im upset xxxxx


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[babyelmo]

Oh hun big . I don't think you're being irrational at all. Shortly after my mmc last year I drove past a bus stop. There was a girl there, heavily pregnant, smoking and she was behaving like like she'd been using drugs. It made me so angry, just at how unfair life was. You're perfectly entitled to feel upset, it's only natural. Try to concentrate on your baby, how beautiful it is and how it will have the most wonderful and loving parents xxx

 

[Belle23]

Yeah she smokes and drinks and doesn't look after herself but yet she gets handed children xxx


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[Loula]

its a cruel world out there, i work in a hospital and i see girls who are in labour going out for a smoke.

The good people have to work for everything its not fair x

 

[BellaRiven]

I have a sister that is exactly like that to the point where she announced her last pregnancy at my birthday party that came just after I had had my breakdown

Unfortunately there are some people in this world that go in smelling of poop and come out smelling of roses, try and stay uber positive and everything will be ok

Hugs to you though BIG HUGE

 

[misscrazycooki]

Yeah I felt the same hunny, my sister has two kids and her eldest is a little sh*t I think he has behavioural problems he screams for sweets and hits everyone including his little sister even ran and headbutted my tummy while I was pregnant with my first. She cheated on her partner a few months before they annouced they were getting married then as me and my partner had a few problems I move out then went back to patch things up but she disowned me. I have just learnt to get on with it look at what I do have and concretrate on that

Keep calm and stress free it won't help the baby. x Look forward to spending christmas with partner and baby bump how far gone are you x

I felt like why can't I conceive before I did and my sister has had about 7 pregnancys and lose 5 or more I have no idea but I know shes taken drugs etc in past so not surprised :S

 

[Belle23]

I'm only 8 weeks. I'm already stressing because I have now got to the same point I did last time so a week on Monday I find out if everything is gonna be ok. But it seems so far away and I can't settle, then she started yesterday and everything had just got on top of me xxxxx

 

[misscrazycooki]

I'm about the same as you hun, I had an early scan on 15th and they say 7 weeks 6 days so three days behind but I'm sticking with my dates for now till 12 week scan as they said they wouldn't take that as measurement I'm sure your scan will be fine hun. I was panicking as I had shooting pains in hips and had no sickness just sore boobies. Oh and the tiredness but I put that down to my son who doesn't sleep at night lol x

 

[chantilly]

sweetie this may sound harsh but try not to let yourself get so stressed over the rights and wrongs of what she has or what she gets ...whats important here is the fact your pregnant you have a lovely little bean inside you and getting worked up over her isn't going to do you any good.

Your emotions are high and you have a right to be angry with your friend in some ways. but i think your really angry at the loss of your last bean and how unfair it is that she got to keep hers . what your feeling is fear and anxiety and your anger towards her is a way of redirecting how scared you are

try and put your energys into focusing on how good things are going to be for you this time hun

Big hugs hun im sure all will go ok for you this time