katey123
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Hi, I would really like to hear your feedback on this issue ,
First alittle back ground :
my daughter chose to move in at dad's after a crazy arguement over internet access with me when she was 16, I have had no contact with her other than her demanding her things then last year she demanding all the photos of her as a baby and child, I made copy's for her as I still wanted to keep them myself.
Now she 20 years old and has a 1 year old who I am not even allow to have a photo of ( my first grandchild) and still have no contact with her at all, now her boyfriend phones me she wants her baby book !!!
Now 'her' baby book contains the cord clip, records of firsts steps, words ,haircut , and lots of photo's . It is all the special mothers memories surely it belongs to the mother not the baby as they are not her memories are they?
I am so upset that she is still behaving in this way after all these years I feel I want to keep the book as I will likely never see it again. I would so love to be able to read though it with my daughter and enjoy her company but all I have are the memories , now she wants to take them too .
Thankyou for reading please let me have your feedback , thanks xx
First alittle back ground :
my daughter chose to move in at dad's after a crazy arguement over internet access with me when she was 16, I have had no contact with her other than her demanding her things then last year she demanding all the photos of her as a baby and child, I made copy's for her as I still wanted to keep them myself.
Now she 20 years old and has a 1 year old who I am not even allow to have a photo of ( my first grandchild) and still have no contact with her at all, now her boyfriend phones me she wants her baby book !!!
Now 'her' baby book contains the cord clip, records of firsts steps, words ,haircut , and lots of photo's . It is all the special mothers memories surely it belongs to the mother not the baby as they are not her memories are they?
I am so upset that she is still behaving in this way after all these years I feel I want to keep the book as I will likely never see it again. I would so love to be able to read though it with my daughter and enjoy her company but all I have are the memories , now she wants to take them too .
Thankyou for reading please let me have your feedback , thanks xx