dusanlusanage
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Hi!
I'm in a bit of a pickle as to what to do.... I've my 20 wk scan on Thursday (actually I'm 19 weeks, but you know what I mean). Me and hubby are hoping to find out the sex of LO.
The 12 week scan was great, my mum was planning on coming, but she was late and missed it. I wished she had been there to see it afterwards, it was so amazing!
Now her and my dad are asking to come to this scan, but I kind of feel that I just want it to be me and husband, as I think it's going to be really emotional, and I don't want the room to be crowded with people, and I don't want to get upset in front of mum and dad (even if it is in a good way).
I don't want to upset mum and dad by saying they can't come, and I might wish that they'd been there after it's done, I'm just not sure what to do. We're not the kind of family that get upset in front of each other, so we're not close in that way. But I think it'd be nice for them to see the scan.
I suppose I'm just wondering who you had present at your scans and any similar situations, and advise on what to do please!!
xxxx
I'm in a bit of a pickle as to what to do.... I've my 20 wk scan on Thursday (actually I'm 19 weeks, but you know what I mean). Me and hubby are hoping to find out the sex of LO.
The 12 week scan was great, my mum was planning on coming, but she was late and missed it. I wished she had been there to see it afterwards, it was so amazing!
Now her and my dad are asking to come to this scan, but I kind of feel that I just want it to be me and husband, as I think it's going to be really emotional, and I don't want the room to be crowded with people, and I don't want to get upset in front of mum and dad (even if it is in a good way).
I don't want to upset mum and dad by saying they can't come, and I might wish that they'd been there after it's done, I'm just not sure what to do. We're not the kind of family that get upset in front of each other, so we're not close in that way. But I think it'd be nice for them to see the scan.
I suppose I'm just wondering who you had present at your scans and any similar situations, and advise on what to do please!!
xxxx