my personal opinion is that women with tattoos on top of arm or chest look quite butch.
What about inside of wrist, lower back, middle of back over spine, back of neck, shoulder, foot, inner ankle.. or why not on your stomach, side or even to the side of your pubic bone (those areas are closer to where your little girl grew xxx
I had a remembrance tattoo on my lower back, I think in a lot of ways it is good to be able to hide a tattoo if you want to