when is my turn ???

[siu]

I am getting impatient and nervous, why is it so difficult to get being conceive? We are trying for more than 6 months and now still no news, I feel depress sometimes when see others family can enjoy the day with their kids but we are so hard to get one, I wonder if there is a day I can get my own kid... I am just depress each time AF visit...

 

[ToriElla]

lots of people are on the same boat on here - you should speak to them for advise. It must be very frustrating but hopefully you will get your BFP soon. Have you spoken to your GP for advise?

 

[Becs]

I'm very new to this hon but from what I've read on this site so far ToriElla is dead right. It sounds like most people take a lot longer than they want to, to conceive. Have you tried many of the tricks and methods suggested on this site?

Keep strong, you'll get there!

 

[Alicebabe]

Using OPKs to pinpoint ovulation should help.................or charting?

 

[smurf]

I know exactly what you mean - have you seen the tread on magic medicine. A lot of the girls who used it fell pg. I've started taking it today - also I use Persona to track when I'm ovulating I think its brilliant tells you exactly when you should ovulate. Its cost me £65 for the startup kit and then £10 per month for the test sticks. I get them from Boots but the clearblue website also sells them.

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

Hun not all but most who TTC take at least 6 months to conceive and they say give it a good year then go see your doctor. Im sure youw ill get that baby soon, good luck hun xxx
Katrina

 

[Fingers crossed]

Hi Hon, good luck TTC. Stay positive and relax . We'll all get there in the end

 

[siu]

actually i dont know how to do charting.. i tried to read most the thread here, those mostly only discussing about their chart.. would be appreciate anyone can guide me?

regarding the magic medicine, i feel.... a bit hard to believe.. but i guess no harm trying.. i guess i will give it a try.

i never seen any gp yet, because i am thinking if after a year we still can't get it, then only go for gp. everybody would luv to be in the natural way.. but sometimes things just don't go well.. it gets me upset, thank you for sharing.. i wish all of us can get conceive very soon.

 

[kirlykird]

Don't get too disheartened!

Some people just take a little longer, all of our bodies are unique...

I just read that you're a little synical about the medicine and you're unsure about charting...

You can usually buy a ferility charting kit from Boots or a cheaper one from e bay...

here's a link I've found for you which is for sale at the mo..

http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/Boots-Fertility-D ... dZViewItem

As for the med... it is a good way to help your cm.

Your cm is a crucial element in helping the little spermies to get to your egg.

It isn't so much the actual med but the ingredient, guafenesin which is in it.

We just use the cough med as it has a high concentration of this ingredient in a cheap easy accessible form.

I was a little synical but I then purchased the fertility book by Toni Weschler which is mentioned at the top of this section and she actually recommends taking guafenesin as it is proven to help conception.

Sorry post is so long but hope it help and good luck

 

[cloud9]

it took me four years to concieve..my best advice is try not to focus on it too much...it happened for us when we were feeling quite dispondant and focusing on other things.

some people are lucky but it is not unusal to take a year

 

[Little Miss Joslyn]

it took me four years to concieve..my best advice is try not to focus on it too much...it happened for us when we were feeling quite dispondant and focusing on other things.

some people are lucky but it is not unusal to take a year

Awww, bless you. im so pleased you have your BFP now after waiting 4 years. i have been TTC for a year now after my miscarriage in april 05 and still no news. i have decided to focus on something else as its taking over my life.
Dont be hard on yourself Siu. it will happen when the time is right. I keep hoping for a miracle one day too and know how hard it is when you want something so bad.

 

[Emma22]

it took me 9 months and it happened when i was on holiday and totally relaxed, it def does help if you can stay relaxed about the whole thing, hardest thing in the world to do though. it WILL happen for you