When is it going to happen for us??

[flopsybunny]

Hiya girls,

Having the mid-month slump again. I just can't believe this is the 10th month trying...I was starting to think something might be wrong but my blood tests have come back normal and the OH's fertility tests are normal too. There could still be problems though couldn't there?

I have tried so much with OPKs, temp charting, CM tracking but still nothing. It is getting me down so much What else can we do? My dr told me not to bother with the POAS OPKs anymore, what do you girls think?

I feel silly, I can't even watch the pregnancy stories on the soaps without getting mopey and depressed. Pathetic aren't I?!!

Sorry to rant...

xx

 

[FebMum2Be]

Feel free to rant hun.. It's exactly what we're here for.. To listen and advise the best we can Some girls who were TTC gave up the OPK's etc.. And had a month "off", and one fell pregnant that very month.. Would trying that be an option? Sending tonnes of your way, good luck xxx

 

[xshauna_bazx]

Sorry didnt want to read and run but i wish you the best of luck heres some baby dust

 

[flexilexi394]

Hello! I'm sorry to hear you're having a stressful time. I'm a big believer in less stress and more enjoyment, it will happen. If you stress abou it your body does things out of sync and stress isn't good for a baby. I'm sorry if it seems like I'm getting at you for being stressed, you may not be, those are just the vibes I get! Lol. Maybe give up using all the testing and things and just go with the flow, spice up bedroom life by doing some pretty whacky things and you never know! Sorry to preach to you it's just what I think and icould be completely wrong. X

 

[Mrs Sam]

I don't think you're being pathetic at all. I know exactly how you feel. There seems to be pregnancy and babies everywhere when your trying doesn't there?

Maybe you could take a month or two off from actually trying? Do something nice, take a break somewhere if thats an option for you. Plan some romantic meals and dates out to the cinema and see if the more relaxed approach might work for you?

Even if it doesn't help you conceive it should allow you to destress a little which might be a natural fertility treatment!

Take care

xxx

 

[Princess81]

Aaaw rant away Hun I agree with the other girls that the element of stress can't be helping your situation. Take a couple months off temping/tracking/poas and just enjoy each other and relax with it. I'm sure it's easier said than done but good news that test results are regular xx

 

[star fish]

Hi flopsybunny. I think that's fantastic news that your tests have come back clear - I'm sure that means it's just a matter of time, plus lots of lovin' of course! We're just starting our tests and I am absolutely terrified that it could come back saying we cant have kids or something, or we have to do loads of injections or worse. I totally understand the slump too, I think it's a natural part of the monthly cycle, but some months it seems much worse than others for sure!! What I can tell you though is that when you are ovulating again you aint gonna feel low, ok? You will feel sexy and enthusiastic because nature made you that way, plus you dont just get to have sex you might just conceive as well! So ride out the blues, I promise they wont last, and do something positive to help you plan for the future that cheers you up, examples in another thread! xxxx

 

[Binzy]

Flopsy, I'm a month behind you and can totally agree with you. All around me people are getting pregnant and it just seems so far away from us, doesn't it. I wish I had something more inspiring to say but when I was at home recently I talked to lots of friends about it and there was a massive difference in the amount of time it took them, so I guess everyone's different. Take care, xx